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want it to be special....

it's hard to believe....the hubby and I have been married almost a year already! I can't believe how fast time has flown. Our anniversary isn't until the first week of feb....but i need ideas! I want our first anniversary to be something we both can remember. the hubby's birthday is the day before....so somehow, I have to figure out how to incorporate it all. Do any of you have any ideas of what we can do? Or stories of celebrating your own first year of marriage? :) oh yeah, btw....money isn't exactly tight but we can't go spend a fortune either way so any ideas would be great while I still have time to plan. I'm so excited!

Re: want it to be special....

  • We tend to just get a nice hotel room relatively close to home and do an overnight trip.  Preferably a hotel with a good restaurant on site so we can drunkenly stumble back to our room.  Spend 24 hours in bed.  Far prefer trips to actual gifts.
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  • I think an overnight trip is the way to go, even if it is only 1/2-1 hour away. I'd go with that!
  • I agree with PPs. Trips make memories and have pictures to scrapbook or frame! Buying stuff will just pile up and become old.

    DH and I forgo gifts for our anniversary to do trips (but we still give each other cards).

  • I also say trips, even if it's a little overnight thing. Maybe you can go somewhere that has a special memory for you too, like re-create your first date. Toss in a mushy card or a homemade gift. Candlelit dinner/night of romance at home maybe. Creating a memory is what will make it most special. My H's birthday is in the same week as our anniversary and he is already of the understanding that his bday celebration will be tied in to our anniversary celebration.
  • For our 1st year anniversary H and I stayed home and took day trips to places around our city. This year (4th anniversary) we're going to do something similar except we will be staying at a nice hotel 1-2 nights.
  • Oh and FYI, since descretionary spending is down due to the economy, many 4 and 5 star hotels have lots of empty rooms they'd love to fill. It's possible to get a great rate via Priceline.com if you go the Negotiator route.

    I just had a 4-star overnight for $65 including taxes at the start of December. I went through the Priceline Negotiator. Big Smile

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