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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Should have warned ME
I wish someone would have warned me that marriage wasnt all peaches'n'cream. I came in blindsided and now I am kind of going through the motions. My biggest thing now is learning to trust someone after being betrayed.
Re: Should have warned ME
Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
I definitely agree with this.
A healthy marriage has arguments and fights, but deep trust issues need to be addressed seriously.
Sometimes this isn't possible. Depends on who did the betraying and what the betrayal was.
Marriage isn't always easy.
Marriage to a cheating partner is a whole different situation.
www.survivinginfidelity.com
I am surprised no one ever told you that. Marriage is hard, really hard sometimes. You have to learn to live 24/7 with this person, and not only live with them, but make financial decisions, household decisions, etc. All of a sudden you have to consult with another person on if you can buy a pair of shoes or where to hang your pictures. lol.
I don't know how long you have been married but don't worry the longer you have been married the less you care about the little stuff. Big stuff (if someone cheated, etc.) may require some outside help - and you should never be afraid to ask for it.
Ignoring issues is what makes marriages fail.
Everyone assumes the betrayal is cheating, however she has not divulged anything. Some Betrayals might feel even worse than being cheated on.