Trouble in Paradise
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Hamc did you drop something?
How did I know that you'd DD?
Social network sl*t
-->My Husbands social network page is filled with mostly woman. Old school mates, co-workers etc etc.. Most of it is innocent. But there is a lady who both my Husband and I sort of know, in real life. She acts like a playboy pinup, posting many dirty pics. She flirts and flirts and has crossed many lines. She has this thing about friending me. I have no idea why, but I don't want anything to do with her. I have warned my Husband to stay away from her, she is trouble. But he has gotten swept up in the attention and has made inappropriate comments back. After ignoring multiple friends request from Miss Sl*t I got mad and blasted her with this message... I will not be accepting your friends request because I do not like you. I know what has been said between you and my Husband. He thinks you are sexy, you make his penis hard, etc..etc.. I do not consider this an appropriate friendship. It is one thing to get a simple compliment from a man, but this is not the situation at all. I do not find this friendship appropriate and I want it to end. If you have any respect for marriage then please remove yourself from his life. No more social network, texts, calls etc...just be gone. I have been with him for 11 years and I am not going anywhere. I have never stuck my nose in your personal business or used rude language around you. But if you ignore my request I will get nasty. |
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magsugar13 Joined on 03-14-2007 20,661 Points
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-->Really? You are telling this woman to back off? While your H has his hands down his pants? Why not tell your H to have some respect for HIS marriage? This sounds like another case of my H has no respect for me but ill blame the other women instead of the man who made a vow to me. Ill blame her for him being totally inappropriate. Direct your anger where it belongs. Stop blaming everyone else for your H disrespecting your marriage, |
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Re: Hamc did you drop something?
That must be an awfully big woman, for her to take up his entire Facebook page.
Wow. Please tell me most of the replies before the OP took her ball and went home were "You're FI is the one that's married to you, so HE'S the one that needs to be respecting your marriage".
Because seriously, Hamc, the ONLY people responsible for "respecting a marriage" are the 2 people in it. Single, naked women can throw themselves at your husband 24/7, and they aren't doing anything wrong, because it's not on everyone else in the world to make sure your husband's eye isn't wandering. That's all on him, sweetheart.
I'm more than willing to start validating people's ideas when they start having ideas worth validating
This is weird. Why not just block the woman?
ETA - I realize this is a FI problem and not this woman's problem, hopefully the OP will be able to see that too. Is that why she deleted?
i guess she thought we'd applaud her decision to put allthe blame on the woman.
and she didnt want to hear her guy was a disrepectful dirt bag. So, ignoring it and making believe its all the girls fault makes much more sense, dont you think?