Sex In The Morning-Problem?

emricmacy

I like sex in the AM, and so does my FI, but he can never finish. I'm not upset with him. But it just seems like every time we have morning sex he can't last long and never finishes, not awake enough?

 

I'm not upset with him or anything, and he doesn't have a problem, just wondered if anyone else's husband or BF has this?

Crochetgal85

My boyfriend doesn't finish every time, but we are intimate enough that it doesn't bother him or me.  And yeah, it does happen in the mornings some times, and it could be because his body is just waking up.  I know that because my boyfriend and I use condoms its harder for him to finish, so if you guys are using condoms, that could be another factor.  Anyways, I wouldn't worry about it, my boyfriend has the same issue sometimes.

emricmacy

We don't use condoms, maybe it's just because he's tired. He is a VERY sexual person, as am I. I just take it personally and get upset like I'm not doing a good job.

quiltedinky

I sometimes suggest he goes pee before I get any morning action. Bonus is that he uses mouthwash before coming back to bed.

Other times we both know it will be fun for both of us even if he doesn't finish and we try again later in the day.

Missing Perspective

emricmacy:

I like sex in the AM, and so does my FI, but he can never finish. I'm not upset with him. But it just seems like every time we have morning sex he can't last long and never finishes, not awake enough?

 

I'm not upset with him or anything, and he doesn't have a problem, just wondered if anyone else's husband or BF has this?

 

You should dump him and find a man that can finish

Hkelley12

Haha I love AM sex almost as much as midday with no kids around sex! Lol but my husband always initiates it and always finishes, me on the other hand, sometimes I'm too tired and I don't. If I initiate and he's still asleep there's times he can't even get it up. It's normal though . And I know the feeling taking it personally. I feel that way when I get all sexy and initiate sex and try to but for some reason he turns me down or can't finish. But I've come to learn its all normal. Lol I mean I don't finish most of the time either. I enjoy it a lot but I don't have an orgasm most of the time. I never really have, though, and that is more of a bother. If he finishes every other time I'd say don't worry, it's just the time of day more or less.

riscolindres

My husband told me that (this happened to me too) this happens because if I initiate it he just goes with it (duh) but sometimes in the morning if he has to pee and doesn't because we were being intimate, he can't finish.

 

It could be something as simple as just using the restroom first.

AshleyGail23

@MissingPerspective: Seriously? How old are you? Is that a joke? That is one of the most insensitive things I have ever seen...! I don't usually respond to trolls, but I couldn't resist! :-O      ORIGINAL POSTER: IGNORE MISSING PERSPECTIVE, WHO IS OBVIOUSLY...missing perspective!