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I knew I should have saved that one!

Honey DDing doesnt  make the problem go away...it just makes it worse that you have to hide it.

I hope you get help and get out of that abusive relationship or youll be walking 1 step behind him your whole life and eventually it will become physical!



Re: I knew I should have saved that one!

  • Cliff notes
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  • Hopefully she took the advice to heart before she deleted.  

    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

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  • imageNurseRobinson:
    Cliff notes

    27 year old woman married to 36 year old man.
    She wanted to know if she was ALLOWED to question anything he does or says. She isnt allowed to question on anything.

    Shes been a good submisive wife and gf...because you know he was likethis before marriage.

    She makes no decisions and just goes along with everythng he tells her to.

    sad so very sad.



  • This is sad...but depressingly common, especially in conservative/religious circles.

     I'm going to shut my mouth before I go off on a rant about submission and misogyny.  The only way this will end is if she leaves.  My XH was like that. I questioned, and it got physical.  Thank God the only thing he did permanent damage to was the door he put his fist through.

  • imageMandiMija:

     I'm going to shut my mouth 

    Yeah, I think that's best.

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  • imagemagsugar13:

    imageNurseRobinson:
    Cliff notes

    27 year old woman married to 36 year old man.
    She wanted to know if she was ALLOWED to question anything he does or says. She isnt allowed to question on anything.

    Shes been a good submisive wife and gf...because you know he was likethis before marriage.

    She makes no decisions and just goes along with everythng he tells her to.

    sad so very sad.

    Yeah, that does sound sad. 

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  • imageNurseRobinson:
    imageMandiMija:

     I'm going to shut my mouth 

    Yeah, I think that's best.

    NurseRobinson, maybe I'm reading you wrong, but I'm not entirely sure that was necessary. 

  • Didn't read the OP, but one positive is she actually is questioning the relationship if she asked if he was wrong. Perhaps, only a baby step for her and maybe she will take another one and another and find herself closer to the door of freedom. Hopefully, quickly.
  • imagemagsugar13:

    imageNurseRobinson:
    Cliff notes

    27 year old woman married to 36 year old man.
    She wanted to know if she was ALLOWED to question anything he does or says. She isnt allowed to question on anything.

    Shes been a good submisive wife and gf...because you know he was likethis before marriage.

    She makes no decisions and just goes along with everythng he tells her to.

    sad so very sad.



    This board is just aces to day for nutty nutty problems.

    Account for everything you say and do, really?

    This guy is nuttier than squirrel poo. She needs to cut bat and run like hell.
  • imageMandiMija:
    imageNurseRobinson:
    imageMandiMija:

     I'm going to shut my mouth 

    Yeah, I think that's best.

    NurseRobinson, maybe I'm reading you wrong, but I'm not entirely sure that was necessary. 

     

    No, NurseRobinson is all about misogyny in relationships.  Seriously.

    image
  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    imageMandiMija:
    imageNurseRobinson:
    imageMandiMija:

     I'm going to shut my mouth 

    Yeah, I think that's best.

    NurseRobinson, maybe I'm reading you wrong, but I'm not entirely sure that was necessary. 

     

    No, NurseRobinson is all about misogyny in relationships.  Seriously.

    No, I am not at all about misogyny in relationships. Seriously.

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  • was the husband British in this situation?  am i thinking of the right post?
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