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A "free pass"???
Ladies, have you ever given your man a free pass to have sex with one random stranger? Apparently this is not uncommon. I don't want my DH to expect it later in our marriage. I am not that type of girl.
Re: A "free pass"???
Who TF told you this was 'not uncommon'? Unless you're in an open relationship, it is not cool to expect random sex with someone else. Just... no. Ridiculous.
I have only heard of a 'free pass' in reference to sleeping with a celebrity. Which is pretty much just something you talk about and not actually do, for obvious reasons.
Ummm... no. "Not uncommon"? You know some weird people.
And what's the difference between now and later in your marriage?
This is weird.
Not uncommon? Where are you getting this information from?
No. I would not give MH a free pass to have sex with some random stranger. That's crazy.
TTC since September 2012
Ditto PP wtf told you this is "not uncommon"?!?!?! Somebody that wants an excuse to cheat on their spouse?
I'm a very mean wife, I expect my husband to sleep with me and only me. I also expect him to not want to sleep with anybody that isn't me.
I'm more than willing to start validating people's ideas when they start having ideas worth validating
I guess I am an out of touch old frigging fart...because I have NEVER heard of this at all.
Holy crap.
Please don't tell me he is the one who came up with this novel concept of a "free pass." I'd "free pass" him right out the window; you'd do the wise thing by doing the same.
He's a dirtbomb for dreaming this one up. Get rid of him.
Meanie
TTC since September 2012
My wife and I have a "free pass" to have sex with a random stranger if that stranger is going to give us at least a million dollars to allow my wife to become a part time worker.
As for any other type of "free pass" I have not heard of that before unless it is something that big city people are doing.
Nope, not acceptable. Although we each have 2 celebrities we can get a free pass for, but we both know it will never happen.
Tell him to quit watching the movie "Hall Pass." It's a movie, not real life.
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I have a free pass for Matt Damon. One day..... ;-) (But seriously, no.)
What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas -- except an STD.
The entire idea of a "free pass" gives me the creeps.
I guess I must be very mean too!
I have only heard of this in movies.
See and now I will stick my neck out there and tell you that there are millions of open relationships in the world.
You just need to decide if its something your ok with?
My husband and I are in an open relationship, we are so beyond in love with eachother and open about absolutely everything. We have NO secrets whats so ever!
Open relationships are def not for everybody, esp those that require complete doting 100% of the time......and to be honest a free pass is just going to wet his desire for more and if you cant handle that, I wouldn't open that can of worms!
More than two in a relationship is just looking for trouble.
Open relationships arte one thing but a "free pass"... What are these people your referring to, putting in their coffee???