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Am I over reacting about my husband viewin porn/sexy pictures?
I'm wondering how many women's husbands watch porn or look at sexy pictures & if it bothers you? I'm going to be 52 & not taking to the aging thing real well at all. My husband & I have been together 30 yr's. The last year or so we had alot of problems w/job loss, financial etc.....we talked less, sex was once in awhile. BUT I found out he was looking at porn/sexy pictures. Sometimes it seemed as if he was watching it in order to have sex. Am I reading too much into this? Is this age thing making me insecure & he's just being a normal guy?
Re: Am I over reacting about my husband viewin porn/sexy pictures?
Personally, I don't mind if my husband watches porn. We actually watch together more often then we watch alone. Would you be comfortable watching with him? It could give your sex life a spark...
I will tell you when I watch por
I don't mind, personally, and I enjoy a little porn myself sometimes. As far as I know, my husband watches porn very rarely - though I don't really ask either, since I know it's not about me and it doesn't bother me.
In your case, is it possible

"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussThanks for your comment, I feel alittle better hearing it from someone else then my husband. I figured he was just saying "it doesn't mean anything I just like to look" it all came out in the open on a special occasion & I found out he had been loo
If he says he isn't watching porn and is lying about it, say no to him, because you do not need a liar.
Age ain't nothin' but some numbers --- take it from me (I am not that much ol
When I first found out he was watching porn, (Oct 2012) I had asked him not to watch it (I told him how it made me feel with the way I'm taking this aging thing) he said he wouldn't watch anymore it didn't mean anything. Then I found out he was watchin
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I wouldn't say that you are. I had a family member get a divorce due to a porn problem (anger issues were also involved). He was always watching porn and it wasn't like she never made herself available for sex, but he would say no. Their daughter caugh
Greeneyes61: Sounds like he has a bona fide addiction to porn.
You need AlAnon (since he's got an addiction and AlAnon is a support group for those who love an addict -- it may not be an alcohol addiction he's got -- but it is an addiction and y
No we haven't tried counciling as he just got back to work & finances are VERY tight. Dont get me wrong he's a GREAT guy I have NO complaints until this porn/picture thing started. There's no anger issues or anything like that & I felt guilty t