Recently, I was told by my BIL he has noticed that while in the presence of the in-laws, they treat one person in the family differently than anybody else in the family. This person is treated as less than an equal. While visiting the parents, I took particular notice of the many pictures displayed. There is a family collage with pictures from years gone by. There are also may portraits and several assorted pictures with family and extended family members. The grand children through the years, the great-grand children and their families. However I noticed that one person in particular is not pictured anywhere in the home. Now it really seems awkward seeing everybody represented with one often being singled out.
Should we say something to the parents about this?
Re: Family or not...
Ok, Her first husband was very demanding. She couldn't wear make-up, had to work despite him being in the fire dept and a new baby at home. He would often see her one night then due to his 4 on-4 off schedule, he would say, see ya in a week. Many, many
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Your BIL should have just stfu and I suggest you do the same. If you are so worried why your photo is not displayed, print out about 100 or so head shots and stick them on EVERYONE'S face. It is their home and they are free to display whomever they wan
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Now I am wondering why they do not want photos of such a charming individual?
It is going to save them time of taking them down once you are no longer family?
The answer I gave you was simple, it is not your business what photos they displa
Nothing good can come of you mentioning this picture thing to you inlaws. You will just come off as being sulky and butthurt. And they aren't going to change. I'm sorry they were racist towards you. They suck. But that's just one more giant red flag in
I would tell her but I don't play games and hide information from my spouse.
Yes I was in a similar situation at one time and I knew my H would never forgive me if I didn't tell him. It also is extremely unfair to you to be put in this posi
It was a strange evening. The girls were upstairs talking, and we were downstairs. I know.. nothing unusual about that, but what he said to me. After lobbing the bombshell, he said, "I want you to know all those years I said I didn't like you, I was on
It always does when he's confronted with the fact that HIS ex
Chronically hilarious - you'll split your stitches!
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