A month after the wedding...

shaneandshaina

We began to argue a lot, couldn't stand being in the same room as each other. We wanted to be away.

My mother & grandmother said it was unusual, that most newly weds  want to be close and romantic, cuddly, have sex. While we wanted opposite.

 

is it normal? 

jjbmstinco

I think its normal.  Sometimes we have our moments and other times we love being together. It might just be a phase.  Just make sure you communicate you feelings and use I statements.

Apollo11235

Did you live together before you got married? If not, I'd suggest you two talk about what you expect of each other on the roommate front. In any case, you need to talk about it. Couples counseling would be a great idea if you can't pinpoint what's botheri

Golden42

Apollo11235:

Did you live together before you got married? If not, I'd suggest you two talk about what you expect of each other on

TarponMonoxide

You have a major marriage crisis on your hands.

Judging from your post on the S&R board, you sure do.

What you are experiencing is not just an adjustment problem.

Where did you find this gem? That's what I want to know.

Manther1222

TarponMonoxide:

You have a major marriage crisis on your hands.

Judging from your post on the S&R board, you sure do.<b

blee2013

Take a moment to figure out what you are actually arguing about and if its worth it. It also helps to write down how you feel if talking to your spouse doesn't do the trick. My husband and I did that when we first started dating and we did a pros and cons

Unknown

I think it depends on circumstances. Without knowing what you are arguing about and more details about the situation, it's hard to say if it's normal. My husband and I had several significant disagreements over the honeymoon, and even today, exactly 4