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Is it me or is it her? Opinions please

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Re: Is it me or is it her? Opinions please

  • I said it before in one of your previous posts and I will say it again. Yes, your wife seems like, from your stories, to not be the most thoughtful person.  BUT the real problem here is your compulsive desire to keep score.  To tally every wr

  • Please just go to therapy.

    Your wife just found out her Dad is going to be dead in a few months and you're on the internet complaining about how she dealt with serving pork chops.

    Therapy.  It cannot be said enough.  Yes, she seem

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  • Dammit guys, look. I know I'm anal. I know I have issues. I also know I am deeply in love with my wife.I am tearing up inside watching her. I have been there. I know what she is going through.... to some respect. I know father-daughter relationships ar

  • Ok, I have tried to be neutral, but that was completely passive-aggressive. What happened to just listening to her frustration that her dying dad was convinced into something he didn't want to do? 
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    Ok, I have tried to be neutral, but that was completely passive-aggressive. What happened to just listening to her fr
  • Yeah, I've tried to be nice about it too, but I'm sorry.  You are an @ss.  To say that you are deeply in love with your wife and then throw in a snarky little passive aggressive comment like "well, she had a good talk, I had a good listen" when
  • imageseptem06bride:
    Yeah, I've tried to be nice about it too, but I'm sorry.  You are an @ss.  To say that you are deeply in
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    I'm opening my heart to you guys and all of you are just spitting in my face. I'm asking for help. Doesn't anybody give
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  • I am asking for help! Please? It feels like everyone is throwing in the towel on me, and I really can't blame them. I know I need counseling. I believe we both need counseling. She has made it to two sessions, but never followed up. I've have asked her

  • Okay, I apologize.  I mis-read you and your situation.  You are not just a martyr. You have a completely narcissistic personality, which is driving your desire to be a martyr.  You are not asking for help, you don't want our advice-

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    Okay, I apologize.  I mis-read you and your situation.  You are not just a martyr. You have a completely

  • imageseptem06bride:

    Okay, I apologize.  I mis-read you and your situation.  You are not just a martyr. You have a completely

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  • Ok, you're right. I'm asking for help and maybe just a little compassion. I want everything to work out and I dearly want to spend the rest of my life with Karen. I just don't know what I can say anymore.
  • She is going to call me when she gets off work. I'm going to tell her to go and be with her father, and I'll see her when she gets home. I'm taking care of the dogs, and I'm going to make up some sauce. A pot of water will be ready for me to add pasta

  • Honestly, if I was your wife, there's no way I would have put up with your whiney, petty grudging-holding @$$ for this long. We get it, you're wife is a selfish beyotch with a horrible family and you secretly hate all of them(Including your wife), but


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    Something has really been bothering me, and I would love your opinions. I'm going to post three recent scenarios. P

  • It seems like, there is always some type of drama going on.  If your wife is truly like you explain, I have no idea why you married her to begin with.  There's a big difference between being IN LOVE with someone and LOVING someone.  By your
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    We already know your wife is somewhat childish and not thoughtful. Still true in these examples, but again you are fi

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