4 months into our marriage

smmatt08

My husband and I have been married 4 months and its been a rough 4 months. In February, on my birthday, my husband broke his collarbone which required surgery. Three and a half weeks after his surgery, I had to have surgery to remove one ovary due to a cyst. Its been hard emotionally for me as well as physically for both of us. We are both on the mend but romantically we are struggling. I think it is mainly due to stress as well as trying to get life back to normal. Does anyone have any ideas into rekindling the romance? I want to be back in the "newlywed stage!" 

DLLadybug

Have you tried talking to him? Express to him how you're feeling at the moment. 

 

You both had a rough start and the first year is typically difficult. 

TarponMonoxide

smmatt08:

My husband and I have been married 4 months and its been a rough 4 months. In February, on my birthday, my husband broke

married2thebest

Start having a special date night each week and put your computers and phones away during that time. Consider a getaway if possible. 

Good Luck and give yourself some time.  

dancingphalanges

I would say to try to get away for a little bit, even if it's just spending a couple days at a hotel the next town over.  You could also start having little date nights, make dinner together, go for a walk through town, have breakfast in bed, engage

MBWebb11212

You guys absolutely need a little R&R. It sounds like it's just been a rough couple of months through no fault of your own. I'm sure that once things start settling and you're not so stressed the romance will start up again.