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cant get her to orgasm..!
hello ,,
im new in this site &the only reason i joined is to answer my questions & to recieve a professional advice ..
i would like to apologize first of all if the issue im asking about is offensive , i dont know any other way for this kind of advice , im 29 years old i have never ben married ..the first time i had six was when i was 16 , sometimes i think i have enough experience in that field ..
i have met with agirl who has just turned 20 ...& i thought that sex will be amazing due to my long experience & her young age .but the fact was shocking to me .. she appears to be hard to please.. shes much much more experienced than me & she didnt orgasm too..i have tried all i have learned in the past & done for a long time , more than enough & nothing worked out & from my past knowledge i knew it wouldnt help to keep on trying & pushing her to orgasm & show her that im trying harder ..it was out first time & maybe she wasnt comfortable with me ...
all my life i felt good about sex ...& about my performance in bed ...but im afraid i wouldnt be able to please this one ..& if that was true it will end up with a breakup because i cannot keep on enjoying something my partner dosint enjoy..
i have talked with her about this & she said ..that this is normal thing to her & she dosnt reach orgasm usually ..& that it have happened for her only once or twice in her life! & she said that doctors told her that nothing is wrong with her too ..
i hope i have given you enough information & i hope that you can advice me about this ..because i really need to make things work with her ..
im avoiding sexual engagement with her for the time being ..cus i dont want to be disappointed again ...i need advice first because i dont thing she was hiding it or lying about it
Re: cant get her to orgasm..!
I'm going to do you a favor, because I'm feeling nice today.
1. Post this on the Sex and Romance board.
2. Learn correct English and grammar - You sound idiotic and uneducated.
3. If you want professional advice, then ask a professional.
I agree with all you have said except this:
"2. Learn correct English and grammar - You sound idiotic and uneducated."
That just sounds mean. Have you ever tried to learn a foreign language?