QOTD 4/17

minionlover

Would you go to a wedding knowing that you were on the "B" list?

mana8503

It really depends on my relationship to the person.  If I knew they really wanted to invite me but couldn't do the budget, space etc - then they had too many regrets... I'd be ok with it.  I'd rather know, then get an invite with a week

goatlady12

Absolutely!  After planning a wedding I totally understand how hard it is to cut your list down.  MIL invited 12 of her neighbors, but also helped a lot financially so I couldn't cut them.  I didn't do a B list, but I

lehc723

Yeah, as long as it wasn't a huge financial strain for me (like hotel, travel, etc.). Like PPs, I understand, and it wouldn't be something I feel like I took persoonally UNLESS it was a situation where I was really surprised and hurt to have not been on t

brainybrunette

It depends. I really don't agree with the A, B, C, etc guest lists idea and I think it's pretty tacky. I understand financial and space constraints, but invite the number you can afford/fit and leave it at that.

snuff9861

I think it really depends on who the person is. I completely understand budget restraints and all that, after planning the wedding. I think the only time I would be upset is if, like PP said, I was surprised not to be on the A list. Also being invited the

minionlover

I also think that it depend on who it was and the situation.  I have a feeling its going to happen to me soon.  I have an old "friend" who is getting married next month.  She asked me for my address and I gave it to her.  I later found

pzavecz

Like others have said, I think it depends on the situation.  Most of the time, I would probably still go, provided I didn't already have plans and if I knew other people there.  I mean...free meal and free alcohol?!  Sure!  I understan

catwine

I don't know how I'd know I was on the B list...but I'd probably go anyways.  I wouldn't take it personally because I was still invited.

 

xxjen015

I probably would. I love going to weddings, so as long as I didn't have to buy a new outfit or get a hotel room, I think I would. 

sjs1013

It depends on the situation.  If I knew they had large families and friend spots were limited, then yes.  But if it were clear I were on the B list, definitely not.  I'd send a gift to be polite though.