Trouble in Paradise
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found evidence that dh (if i can call him that) has been talking to and trading pictures with other people.  the emails i found are so upsetting and one says lets meet at a hotel.  im beyond upset. he had just talked to people to get naked pictures he says to jerk off with that was before we had kids early on in our marriage and now that its been 8 years and 1 3year old and im 7 weeks pg i come across it again and im totally disgusted, upset and mad!! I don't know what to do now
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  • He obviously isn't going to stop or change, do you want to keep having this happen? If no, then I wouldn't say anything to him, talk to and hire an attorney, get copies of all financial documents, start my own separate bank account and kick is a$$ out.

  • So you knew he was a cheater eight years ago, and decided to have kids with him.  Not such a good idea, was it?
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  • Well, obviously what you did last time didn't help at all. So, now I'd say its time to pack up his sh54#t and move his out!


  • I'm really sorry.  That's horrible.  You should definitely talk to him, perhaps get counseling if you even want to stay in the relationship, which I don't think I'd advise..  That'd be a dealbreaker for me, probably for others.

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    now i know how Nancy Kerrigan felt. that's insight into SCARY ISLAND. you have no clue what really went down.
  • imageFromCTtoCA:
    found evidence that dh (if i can call him that) has been talking to and trading pictures with other people.  the ema
  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    So you knew he was a cheater eight years ago, and decided to have kids with him.  Not such a good idea, was it?
  • He did this twice! Ouch! Ouch!
  • OP, so sorry you are going through this.  I have to agree with the others, you need to get yourself tested ASAP.  As for what else to do...if it were me, I would be gone, that is an absolute deal breaker/marriage breaker. 
  • had similar situation in past, found in bookmarks best adult sites to "hookup", and then "observed" few months: emails, sms,and so on. Result? Ex was going regularly on one night stands with other girls and women. After that I released that this will not works (fortunately no kids with him)
  • edited December 2013
  • Wow, how on the ball is that spammer, resurrecting an 8-month-old thread? I'm curious to see how long it takes The Nest to delete it.
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