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Oral stimulation?
Hi everyone, I'm having a problem enjoying oral stimulation from my bf and i need help!
When he goes down on me, it feels good but it's like i'm too sensitive or something. it's like a sensory overload and i can't even handle it for a full minute, let alone all the way to climax.
I have no problem using a vibrator or even a massaging shower head which is why i don't understand the problem when he uses his tongue...i would think that the vibrations/pressure from these other methods would be WAY too much for me if i can't even handle a tongue!
What do we do? i'm really bummed that I can't enjoy oral sex and he's upset too because he wants to please me in every way possible.
HELP!
Re: Oral stimulation?
"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussHmmm... is he using too much pressure (i.e. pushing or licking too hard)? I like "light" pressure during oral. From time to time my husband gets a little too excited and goes rogue and I get that feeling, that it makes my clitoris a little too sensitive to achieve an orgasm.
I've told him about it and he's lightened up his approach so to speak. I've told him, I want you to kiss/lick my clitoris like you would kiss me on the mouth. And that seems to be the ticket for me!