Trouble in Paradise
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That didn't last long.
Did the woman who was having lackluster sex with her husband after starting ttc and catching him (probably) cheating get a response from anyone other than me?
Re: That didn't last long.
I guess she figured out one board is enough.
Jumping in! She posted it over there after we all responded on here. Weird.
I also thought it was weird that her husband's parents "couldn't conceive and had to adopt" so they were worried about him having troubles. Um, if they're not his adoptive parents then they CAN conceive, because they managed to have him. If they're his adoptive parents then they don't need to worry about him inheriting it genetically.
Yeah, she's over on Sex and Romance now. But that was my thought too. If he's adopted he doesn't have to worry about inheriting his adoptive parents genes. WTF? DUH!
That's what I said --- her bigger problem is that he is cheating.
As stupid as the rest of the post is (no idea why anybody would actively TTC with someone who was unfaithful, especially recently...), I think what she meant was that personally knowing people who were unable to have biological children makes her/their fears about being unable to have biological children feel more real to them. Like, it hits them close to home because they have "real" experience with infertility (through his parents).
That being said; damn... I can't even imagine the mindset of being worried about being unable to conceive with someone who was unfaithful to me. In her situation I would just be glad I wasn't pregnant so that I could deal with the potential/likely divorce without bringing children into it.
DD: 6/27/2012, 2 lb. 0 oz., 29 weeks 0 days (severe pre-e/HELLP).