Am I taking this to personal?

plainoldme79

My husband & I are getting more and more distant each day, my husband made a comment about my chest & how I should look when I perform oral, I felt that he wanted me to look like the porn stars do and my chest should be like the girls on a porno. It really hurt my feelings and made me really insecure about my body, I told him how I felt, and he says I'm taking to personal, could I be?

artbyallie

Um, no, you're not. He's being an insensitive . Is he usually like this?

TarponMonoxide

Is he kidding?

He just now noticed your chest, after all this time, and he's commenting on it.

And now he's a director, too, of love scenes.

Your H is a prize sh!t. That's what I think he is.

I get the idea that there is a great deal more here to the story than what he said about your appearance and "how" you should look.  Something is funky here; I don't like the sound of it at all.

I'd sit him down and tell him no holds barred how he made YOU feel.

And throw in a few pointers for him: that his wang needs to be thicker and longer and he needs to have more staying power.  And that he's not as good as some of the guys you've read about.

See how he takes it. Bet you it's right on the ole CHIN!

chrisandsarahwedding

No you aren't taking it too personal. No woman would want their man to say that to them. What an a**. Tell him to quit watching the pornos, no one in real life looks like that.

JemmaWRX

No, you're not taking it too personal.  He's being gross.  If he wanted a porn star wife he should have married a porn star.  I'd be feeling less insecure and more disgusted that my husband felt this way.

BulgariHeart

Yeah, I wouldn't doubt myself as much as I would HIM. He sure sounds disgusting.

Manther1222

I'm sure he would feel insecure if you commented on how he needs sculpted abs and a certain way of looking during sex...

JemmaWRX

Manther1222:

I'm sure he would feel insecure if you commented on how he needs sculpted abs and a certain way of looking during sex...

+1.  OP - tell him you wish his penis was bigger, ya know, like the size of a porn star's penis.

ReturnOfKuus

I certainly wouldn't be giving him oral any more, that's for sure.  What a misogynistic a$shole.

J+G+M

Nope, you aren't! Like Kuus said, I wouldn't give him oral any more. Plus, the next time he mentions something about your chest, tell him to pay for a lift, implants, or whatever he thinks is so wrong with your chest. Then after a bit, tell him he needs to find a new method to pleasure you since his d!ck just isn't doing it any longer. Men like this, get off on hurting their spouse and enjoy seeing their self-esteem go down the toilet.