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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Will you be married forever? Will one of you cheat?
Who are you to decide what is and is not moral? As much as people want to say the U.S. is a Christian nation, it's not, nor should it be.
It's one thing to say you 'believe' in something. It's another thing entirely to browbeat someone you don't even know and pass your high-horse judgement on them.
I'm pretty sure she's got both a brain and a conscience, and she's using both of them to be in a relationship that WORKS FOR HER.
This is not an "alternative sexual desire." It's regular sex. Regular sex with regular consenting adults.
I'm married. I have no desire (well, not REALLY. . .) to have sex outside my marriage. If my husband tried to say he wanted an open marriage, we'd be getting a divorce, because that's not what I personally am comfortable with.
You said you're not the person to judge, but what is it you think you're doing RIGHT NOW?
It's people like you that make some non-religious people hate religious people.
@catsareniice1 ? I can't think of anyone who thought he/she would be cheated on, and I'll bet the newlywed women in the study who anticipated infidelity still would be shocked if it actually happened. We all want to believe what we want to believe, and hope for (expect?) the best. All I can say is, pick your partner carefully and be the best person you can be. There's nothing else we can do after that ...