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Porn Addict.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and a half now and we communicate well. However before we met he was gone away for a very long time where intercoarse was not an option just masterbating. I am normally a very secure person but he has this infatuation with Porn so bad he will sneak to watch it while we are having intercoarse! On phone and behind my back, I caught him doing this 3 times now. It feels like he is not even into me and he is just using my body to fill in for the chic hes watching. He also goes on these benge where he will disappear all day long and just go and watch porn and masterbate. Then lie to me about what he was doing all day long and where he was. I now have set some boundries and refuse to let him watch the porn at all because he is sneaking behind my back and lying to me about it. My issue is how can I get him to tunnel the desire for the porn towards me? I need help because I get so insecure when he would rather watch porn and masterbate then have sex with me. I would love to know what are some things I can do to get this guys mind on me not just himself?
Re: Porn Addict.
This isn't the guy for you.
Here is why:
I am normally a very secure person but he has this infatuation with Porn so bad he will sneak to watch it while we are having intercorse! On phone and behind my back, I caught him doing this 3 times now. It feels like he is not even into me and he is just using my body to fill in for the chick hes watching. He also goes on these benge where he will disappear all day long and just go and watch porn and masterbate. Then lie to me about what he was doing all day long and where he was.
Not only is he watching too much porn for your tastes, he is also a liar.
Doesn't matter what he lied about: the fact he lied means he's a bad risk for a relationship.
Get rid of him and get rid of him posthaste. Wishing you luck.
You might also consider nipping this kind of thing in the bud and go to see a therapist: find out why you attracted such a jerk and make tracks, with therapy, to end this "attraction" you have for a jerk. You will find out how to find a nice normal guy...one who won't have you competing with anybody else.:)
Yes me too, and that is coming from someone who enjoys porn from time to time. This guy has Issues with a capital "I". Who turns on porn secretly while having sex with your gf?!?!
Dump him.
All guys watch some porn. But guys who think porn is better than a real woman are idiots and immature and not ready for a real relationship.
Do me a huge favor and read this article. It will open your eyes to porn/masturbation from a male perspective and show you that your story isn't unusual.
http://nymag.com/news/features/70976/