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Just wondering.

I am a guy. And when I masturbate, I imagine making love to a certain person. Sometimes it is my wife and sometimes it could be someone else.

Is it the same for women? Or is it just something that is done without imagination ?

 

Re: Just wondering.

  • I think like you everyone has a different answer, I personally have fantasized about my husband, super stars, and then sometimes about no one at all and just getting off. I think men are way more visual. I do not need a porn, or video and not that that can't be fun but for me it is the feeling.

    I think you will not have one uniform answer because women are complex creatures.

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  • I have a rule for myself: My mind is free to wander excepts during orgasms (mine or his) 

    ETA- To be more specific to your questions, I have specific people in specific situations that I run through. Im highly imaginative.  

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  • If I'm alone, I rarely think of anything but what I'm feeling.

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