Wife's Quick Orgasm

Chris2550

I can barely touch my wife when we are having sex and she'll have an orgasm. After two she is finished and I usually have intercourse in the missionary position until I'm done. That's it. It's very predictable. Very hard to try new things because she climaxes so easily and is finished before I have barely started. Help.

 

TarponMonoxide

Find ways to delay the excitement.:)

You can find ways to slow her down --- don't touch her where you know she's overly sensitive and don't manuever her into positions where you know she's liable to orgasm, whether it's quickly or not.

Also don't use positions that penetrate deeply.

You can also start out having sex in missionary; this way you're bound to get off and then you can have intercourse in other posistions, for her pleasure.

You can also have her masturbate you first before intercourse or you can put on a show for her. Then proceed with the rest of the night's festivities.:)

Chris2550

She climaxes way before we even get to intercourse. I feel bad that I can't give her any extended forplay. I would also like to try new things and positions but I don't want to insult her if she thinks I'm not happy with the status quo. 

TarponMonoxide

Chris2550:

She climaxes way before we even get to intercourse. I feel bad that I can't give her any extended forplay. I would also like to try new things and positions but I don't want to insult her if she thinks I'm not happy with the status quo. 

Don't tell her....just do it.:) If it feels great she's not going to argue.:)

YOu can also sit down with her and tell her, "Honey, we are red hot and sex with you is fantastic -- and I think we'd be absolutely explosive if we tried" and then tell her what you're intrested in.:)

There's also sex books for couples --- mainstream bookstores sell them so you and she can browse together and pick what you like -- and you might also try something like "The new sex position of the week." You can start with the usual: reverse cowgirl, spooning, doggie style, wheelbarrow and then work your way up to the more daring ones.

Chris2550

Thanks. I'll take a look at the book store and show her on the weekend. Are there any particular positions that will be less sensitive for her so that she will last a little longer? 

ldmessing

Most guys wouldn't be complaining about this

Chris2550

Definitely not complaining. If you read the post above, I feel bad (for my wife) because I want to be able to give her prolonged for play and delay her excitement. 

 

TarponMonoxide

Chris2550:

Thanks. I'll take a look at the book store and show her on the weekend. Are there any particular positions that will be less sensitive for her so that she will last a little longer? 

THis is for you and her to decide.:) You and she know where she is most sensitive --- usually missionary isn't the greatest for a quick orgasm.:)

Here's another great idea: help her in mastering the fine art of multiple orgasms!:)

She'll have her cake and eat it too --- and you'll be good to go, all night long, with all those orgasms she is having.;)

ldmessing

Chris2550:

Definitely not complaining. If you read the post above, I feel bad (for my wife) because I want to be able to give her prolonged for play and delay her excitement. 

 

based on your original post, you are the only one complaining. 

ldmessing

Chris2550:

I can barely touch my wife when we are having sex and she'll have an orgasm. After two she is finished and I usually have intercourse in the missionary position until I'm done. That's it. It's very predictable. Very hard to try new things because she climaxes so easily and is finished before I have barely started. Help.

 

where do you mention even once that she is unhappy with the situation?  instead all I see is "I, I, I"

Chris2550

Thanks so much for your input. I think I'll use the helpful information from Tarpon.