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Ok we have decided to take our relationship to the next step, I am a little nervous
any tips or helpful advice you can give me? We both have been married and are now divorced and have a lot in common I really care about him and want this night to be awesome. We both have kids and cant be together in our homes so he has gotten a hotel for us so there are no limits which is awesome. is there anything I need to know to relax that day before doing the deed lol?
Re: First time with new guy!
Relax, take your time and use lots of lube.:)
Firstly, don't think that failure means you are not good together!...and be kind to each other!.......don't expect too much from this first time as it's not a very natural situation.
As a man your b/f probably feels he is more vulnerable to fail than you will be........I'm a man and can tell you that I have been in the same situation and initially failed to get erect when the time came. Not surprisingly, I felt absolutely miserable and expected 'her' to dump me there and then! However, she understood what was happening and two days later we had a wonderful time that was the start of a very successful relationship. ........So, please, be nice to eachother!