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Re: My husband cheated on me
I would have never thought he would do this because he was raised with good values from his family and has told me that he does not believe in cheating and said cheating is a dealbreaker in our marriage but he went and did it anyway? I have no idea why or how he would do this? We were happy in our marriage and I did not have any suspicions of my husband cheating since we were both happy in our marriage and we did not even fight about anything and we very rarely fight... I am shocked and heartbroken about this but I know I will be much better off without him since he is such a major d!ck!
That's horrible. What a dip shiz for putting it on your computer. I mean, is he stupid? Not saying, you know. But its like he wanted to get caught. Yes you sure will be better. Better to find out now than later after you started a family together. Best wishes for you. I don't even know what I would do...
It sounds like he wanted to be caught because after I told him about the video, he said "Did you enjoy it?" He is a nutcase!
Thank you for the kind words!
Wow that's awful my heart goes out to you. You have my thoughts and prayers.
Do you have children? I really hope not for their sake fighting parents headed toward divorce is no fun. Another statistic so sad. Working through cheating is not easy but it can be done if both sides are willing. I pray there can be resolution I pray for healing.
"A women who can kneel before the Lord can stand up to anything"
ummmm. no. just no.
no amount of prayer can make the OP unsee that video of her H banging another woman.
you must live in la la land where you think prayer makes everything all honky dory but sorry, this is the real world and some things are just not forgivable. one's H sticking their d**k in another woman is one of those things. but go right ahead and keep your head in the clouds over there...smh
Agreed.
I have no children but I can not believe you would think of a resolution between us! There would be NO resolution between us! He made another woman pregnant!!!! If your husband made another woman pregnant, I bet you would not think of a resolution!
Hell to the NO there would be NO resolution. Even if he did feel horrible about it.. IN my opinion, sorry but cheating is a deal breaker bigtime for me! Just seeing a video of him and another chic, I would wanna kill him.
Thank you! I will keep you updated on my test results when I get them
Yeah... the first post was a little iffy. Then when she said she took the other poster's advice and set his stuff on fire, I was like, people are believing this sh!t??
BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
I do not see what is wrong with me taking the poster's advice about setting my d*ckbag husband's stuff on fire? My d*ckbag husband deserves that for making another woman pregnant
I have no comment on that
Okay, it started as MUD. It got muddier when you claimed to have burned his stuff. Now you're claiming that you don't see anything wrong with that?
For starters, it's going to do wonders for you in divorce court. Because burning his laptop and clothes is definitely not a sign that you're crazycakes.
The key to good MUD is scaling it back a bit. You have to keep us guessing whether you're really batshit crazy or not. I'd cut your losses on this one and try again later.