Getting him to perform oral sex

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I'm not sure how to get him to perform oral sex on me. I have performed oral sex on him several times but he never even attempts to return the favor. I have a hard time asking him to return the favor. How can I get him to realize I would like to experience oral sex with him?

oldbugle

As one of the few men who regularly visit this site I am constantly dissapointed by the way the women viewers make allowances for other women but squawk the "dump him" screach at the first glimpse of male failure......

 

.............However, in this instance,...with a man who does not even think about either giving his woman full pleasure or EVEN returning the honour of reciprocation then, frankly, your only rightful course is to 'DUMP HIM' as soon as you can and find a real man!!!    Since he apparently does not know (or maybe even care) that he is not making the required effort, there is no point in your making anymore effort on him! 

TarponMonoxide

oldbugle:

As one of the few men who regularly visit this site I am constantly dissapointed by the way the women viewers make allowances for other women but squawk the "dump him" screach at the first glimpse of male failure......

 

.............However, in this instance,...with a man who does not even think about either giving his woman full pleasure or EVEN returning the honour of reciprocation then, frankly, your only rightful course is to 'DUMP HIM' as soon as you can and find a real man!!!    Since he apparently does not know (or maybe even care) that he is not making the required effort, there is no point in your making anymore effort on him! 

Indeed.

But he doesn't mind having you wop the ole skull on his member.

UGH.

Where did you find this prince of a guy?

Once again: Communication is key.

If you still want to pursue a relationship with this guy, ask him point blank why he won't go down on you.

Maybe he thinks he won't do it right. Maybe it's a hangup. Maybe it's something else. Talk to him and if he still won't ante up, get rid of him.

ewill7911

Maybe he doesnt think you want that to happen - or is not used to it. Maybe try trimming or changing something down there and seeing if he notices and asks about it. Sometimes is uncomfortable to talk about it but maybe suggest it in a teasing or seductive way and see what comes of it.

ldmessing

Ladies first, that should be the rule for oral and orgasms, that is what makes a man a good lover, dump all the rest

SmrBrd2012

I don't really think it's dump-worthy yet. Talk to him first. Maybe he has a valid reason that he's afraid to bring up. Just ask him. If it's a BS reason, then act upon that. Communication is key, people.

anssett

Have you said out loud, in words, "I want you to go down on me!"? Do that pronto. You know your sexual needs and it's your job to communicate them. If he balks...well, I certainly wouldn't be patient, I'd be gone.

white318

You need to talk to him, and express that you would like oral sex as well.  I wouldn't dump him unless he refuses, and it is something you cannot do without.  Some people have hang-ups, but they need to be upfront about it and be willing to satify you in other ways. Just be open and honest in a non-confrontational way and see what happens.

snmetz7

Communication is key to any relationship. Don't be afraid to say "go down on me." If you're not ready to make it that black and white, try subtly pushing on his shoulders when you are making out...thats kinda the sign for "ok now go lower"