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Pros and Cons of a Winter baby

My husband and I have always talked about having a Spring/Summer baby but now I have been contemplating a possible Winter baby.  What are yalls experiences?  Here are a few reasons why I am starting to consider a Winter baby, let me know what yall think.
1) In my profession I am contract labor so I will not receive paid maternity leave and bills tend to cost a considerable amount less in the winter,  I understand its not all about the money and my husband can easily take over, but why not relieve some stress?
2)  I commute to work in a different town and it takes about 45 minutes to an hour to get to work and when we have bad winters its hard enough for me to get to work so if I am on maternity leave I wont even have to worry about getting out in the weather
3) by the time summer rolls around they will be big enough to enjoy going outside
These are just a few of the things I have been thinking about
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Re: Pros and Cons of a Winter baby

  • Yeah. I would love to be able to choose the season that I get to have a baby. If having a baby works better for you in the winter, then have sex to time that correctly.  

    For me, I just want a healthy baby WHENEVER it might come.  Even if that means I get less time off of work, have to spend extra time in the car or don't get to "play" with my baby outside. 

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  • Most of us here are still trying to get pregnant and have no experience with having our own babies yet. Many of the ladies here, myself included, are struggling to get and/or stay pregnant. We would be happy to have babies any time of the year.

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  • Oh yeah!  I'm bored today, so I'm excited to watch this unfold!
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  • WTF learn to lurk before you post on a board.
  • This is hilarious. "Like, OMG, what season should I have my baby in?" Ah, to be able to have the choice. LOL. Those damn Fertile Myrtles will never know what its like to just wish you could have a baby at all. Let alone worry about the season. 
    28 y/o F. Off BCP since 2008. TTC for 2 years, no success. Stopped for almost three years, starting again hoping for different results. :)http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2547ab
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    August 2013 - January 2014: try NOT to get pregnant

    February - May 2014: TTC

    June 2014 - January 2015: try NOT to get pregnant

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    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • Why are you worrying about this now? You've got a lot of time to figure this out. Cause if you got knocked up now you wouldn't have a winter baby. It'd be spring. Nobody wants a spring baby. Winter babies are the best, your reasoning is sound. Don't listen to us! We all just want babies whenever. None of us are smart enough to think about it seasonally!
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    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

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  • I am very sorry that I have offended people,  I should of paid more attention to what I was doing.  Of course I want a healthy baby no matter what.  Ive just seen forums on "why to have a baby in the summer" "why winter" etc.  Thats the reason I was asking just if anyone had personal experience but I had no idea this was posting to the getting pregnant thread, that was my fault
  • Aimothy said:
    wtamu11 said:
    I am very sorry that I have offended people,  I should of paid more attention to what I was doing.  Of course I want a healthy baby no matter what.  Ive just seen forums on "why to have a baby in the summer" "why winter" etc.  Thats the reason I was asking just if anyone had personal experience but I had no idea this was posting to the getting pregnant thread, that was my fault
    Did you see any of those threads on THIS forum?  Uh no. Bye Bye. 
    Wait. I just read your last sentence? Where the eff did you think you were posting?

    Good news, you are so smart that you'll get pregnant the first month you try to have a winter baby.  WALNUTS. 

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  • There are so many things I'd like to say here, but they will all come out mean, so, good luck with that plan!

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  • Yes, you should order you baby online at customizedbaby. com and pre-schedule delivery.  You're a little late for Winter 2013, but it's never too late for Winter 2014.  Here are the instructions:

    (1) Pick birthdate
    (2) Pick gender
    (3) Pick hair color
    (4) Pick eye color
    (5)Click yes for dimples
    (6) Click 1 for sports talent, Click 2 for music ability, Click 3 for above average intelligence, Click 4 for freakishly long toes

    There is seriously something wrong with people today!  UGhhh!  

    Diagnosed with Severe DOR at 31 years old (AMH .14 FSH 9.8) 
    D & L are here at 34 weeks 4 days by vaginal and breech delivery on 11/19/2013

  • wtamu11 said:
    I am very sorry that I have offended people,  I should of paid more attention to what I was doing.  Of course I want a healthy baby no matter what.  Ive just seen forums on "why to have a baby in the summer" "why winter" etc.  Thats the reason I was asking just if anyone had personal experience but I had no idea this was posting to the getting pregnant thread, that was my fault
    You must have missed that in the title of the board.
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    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • I just want a baby anytime! Seasons smeasons.
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    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
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  • Go directly to jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200 Nest dollars.
  • Go directly to jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200 Nest dollars.

    Did you know that people complained about Monopoly taking too long to play, so they are revamping the game and eliminating jail?
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  • Aimothy said:
    You should sit down with your DH's penis and plan a meet and greet between sperm and egg for February.
    Oh man! THIS IS WHY I'm not pregnant yet. I never scheduled a meet and greet. FUCK ME. 
    Actually, it wouldn't be "FUCK ME". That is why you need a meet and greet!! HE is supposed to fuck YOU.

    And then you eat walnuts and THEN you have a baby!

    Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh @Aimothy!!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • MRads said:
    Go directly to jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200 Nest dollars.

    Did you know that people complained about Monopoly taking too long to play, so they are revamping the game and eliminating jail?
    I don't know what makes me more mad, this post or changing Monopoly! I love Monopoly! I have Bruinsopoly, Nightmare Before Christmasopoly, and obviously the original! First the Iron gets retired and now this?!?!?! I can't handle it! It's a bad time to be Monopoly :-!

  • Aimothy said:



    You should sit down with your DH's penis and plan a meet and greet between sperm and egg for February.

    Oh man! THIS IS WHY I'm not pregnant yet. I never scheduled a meet and greet. FUCK ME. 

    Actually, it wouldn't be "FUCK ME". That is why you need a meet and greet!! HE is supposed to fuck YOU.

    And then you eat walnuts and THEN you have a baby!

    Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh @Aimothy!!

    You know. I'm an anomaly to my theory that dumb=fertile.

    Thanks @amandaf6383

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  • Brutal honest opinion: Don't get hopes up on specific seasons, months, etc. After trying over 2 yrs to conceive, I would be happy ANY day, even xmas day would be great at this point. We originally had wanted winter baby but not everyone gets what they wish for.
  • MRads said:



    Go directly to jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200 Nest dollars.


    Did you know that people complained about Monopoly taking too long to play, so they are revamping the game and eliminating jail?

    People are too impatient for monopoly? That sucks and it makes me sad.

    I remember having a semester-long monopoly game during a study hall in high school. Those were the days.
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  • Aimothy said:
    You should sit down with your DH's penis and plan a meet and greet between sperm and egg for February.
    Oh man! THIS IS WHY I'm not pregnant yet. I never scheduled a meet and greet. FUCK ME. 
    Actually, it wouldn't be "FUCK ME". That is why you need a meet and greet!! HE is supposed to fuck YOU.

    And then you eat walnuts and THEN you have a baby!

    Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh @Aimothy!!
    You could also have the meeting with your H's doppelganger. 
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • Aimothy said:
    You should sit down with your DH's penis and plan a meet and greet between sperm and egg for February.
    Oh man! THIS IS WHY I'm not pregnant yet. I never scheduled a meet and greet. FUCK ME. 
    Actually, it wouldn't be "FUCK ME". That is why you need a meet and greet!! HE is supposed to fuck YOU.

    And then you eat walnuts and THEN you have a baby!

    Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh @Aimothy!!
    Gah. I'm sorry, I tagged the wrong person @sewilson33. :) I'm clearly ready to be fertile. 

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • Go directly to jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200 Nest dollars.

    Did you know that people complained about Monopoly taking too long to play, so they are revamping the game and eliminating jail?
    People are too impatient for monopoly? That sucks and it makes me sad. I remember having a semester-long monopoly game during a study hall in high school. Those were the days.
    We should have a game night when you come back and live in Boston!
  • DAMMIT. These quoting blocks getting screwed up are making me look like a crazy person this morning. 

    I did tag the right person.  Then I thought I didn't. THen I did. 

    WHYCAN'TIJUSTHAVEAWINTERBABY???

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


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