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Pros and Cons of a Winter baby

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Re: Pros and Cons of a Winter baby

  • Just bringing to light the fact that you're all rude. Sad and rude. That's all. Don't change for little ol me.
  • You don't need to bring light to anything. You are clearly butt hurt over the fact that you're not accepted here even though you have never made an effort. You aren't saying anything that hasn't been said before. You can feel badly for our husbands, call people bitter, or whatever else, but it's old news.
  • MH1006 said:
    Just bringing to light the fact that you're all rude. Sad and rude. That's all. Don't change for little ol me.
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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • MH1006 said:

    Just bringing to light the fact that you're all rude. Sad and rude. That's all. Don't change for little ol me.

    I'm usually quite happy actually. And the reason I don't get off of GP and go to IF, is I like the hopeful happy newbs. I also thoroughly enjoy educating people on the life altering diagnosis of IF, which is not as needed on a IF only board. You are welcome here even if you don't get where we're coming from or are a bitch. Just don't get upset when the old bitters correct you or call you out on something dumb!

    Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007
    2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.
    RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds:  BFNs 12/12-2/13
    IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13

    ~My Bitter Bitches Be the Best~

  • Ignorant, ignorant, ignorant. Smh.

  • MH1006 said:

    Ignorant, ignorant, ignorant. Smh.

    What are we uninformed about? Or are you using that word incorrectly?
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  • MH1006 said:

    Ignorant, ignorant, ignorant. Smh.

    until you have burried your own children that you went through multiple fertility treatments then you may call people fucking ignorant, when they are in fact being ignorant, like you are. Shut your mouth and leave these brave amazing women alone.


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    Me(27) PCOS, Hypothyroidism & Incompetent Cervix  DH(29) Azoospermia
    4/11- 12/11 Provera, 3 cycles clomid 50mg, all BFN (HSG-all clear)
    Dec 2011 DH S/A shows zero count - dx Azoo
    TESE 4/13/12 - Sperm found!! 5 viles frozen
    IVF ICSI #1- (Lupron protocol) 5R 2F 2dt- 2DP & 4CF - BFFN
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    ER 8/8 11R 9F 3dt - 9BF & 7BF (+HPT 8dp3dt)beta 1-184 beta 2- 1699 TWINS! EDD 5/1/13
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  • Who is that directed at?
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • MH1006 said:
    Ignorant, ignorant, ignorant. Smh.
    until you have burried your own children that you went through multiple fertility treatments
    Sums it all up right there. You people are special. You're right... Despite the fact that you have absolutely no idea what my story is (but let's assume I'm immature and have been TTC for 2-3 mos like everyone who lurks and isn't a part of this dreadful "community"), I have no business calling you out because I've never buried my own children. Seriously...
    Maybe if you gave a proper intro instead of just jumping in and 'calling us out' we'd know your story.
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

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  • No need.
  • MH1006 said:
    Ignorant, ignorant, ignorant. Smh.
    until you have burried your own children that you went through multiple fertility treatments
    Sums it all up right there. You people are special. You're right... Despite the fact that you have absolutely no idea what my story is (but let's assume I'm immature and have been TTC for 2-3 mos like everyone who lurks and isn't a part of this dreadful "community"), I have no business calling you out because I've never buried my own children. Seriously...
    Have you shared your story? No. We don't know you from a hole in the wall. I know these women. I care about them; we have bonded over years of being here. So quite frankly, your story doesn't matter to anyone here because you are not a part of our community. You don't want to be a part of our community so I don't know why you are getting your panties in a bunch over something you don't care about at all. It's great that you can lurk on the internet and judge everyone here from afar, but we can't do the same thing that you are doing? We just aren't creeps about it.
  • Yes, you judging us for judging other people shows how much of a better person you are!
  • MH1006 said:
    Quit trying to be a martyr and calm the hell down. If you're trying to tell me that you're a bitch because you're infertile, you're wrong. You're just a bitch who happens to be infertile. I find it alarming that for some reason, rather than this board being about "getting pregnant" it's become an IF board full of hatred toward anyone who has not "properly" told their story of loss or grief. I didn't even start this thread. Just someone who is disturbed by how ridiculous some of you are being. I WILL judge the heart of a woman who has been through heartbreak if her heart is cruel and unkind. I commend you all for your compassion toward one another (in your clique), but cannot stand by while you continually make rude, condescending remarks toward those who's posts are not filled with enough tears and grief. Only a lurker, never wanted to be accepted, just tired of the nonsense.

    Congratulations on being exactly what you've called these ladies out for being. So the ladies here are bitches because some of us have experienced heartache beyond anything we'd wish on our worst enemy. If you had done more than just lurked and decided to jump on here and stir the pot, then you'd know that all women at all points in their TTC journey are welcome here as long as they come here with a bit of decency and respect for others. I'm glad you don't feel the need to be a part of our community, because there's no place for ignorant clowns like yourself. Please go back to lurking now.

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    “You can have your wishes, your plans, but at the end of the day, it's out of your control"
    - Gayle Forman
    "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
    - Neil Gaiman

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  • I keep trying to tell you that it's not about "the heartache beyond belief" you've experienced. You all keep trying to bring that into this. It's not about that, so get off your soap boxes and learn how to read. It's about being rude and obnoxious. That's it. Quit being so pathetic.
  • Riiiiiiinnnnng Riiiiiiiinnnnng

    Hello? Yeah Pot, this is the kettle! Just wanted you to know you're still black!

  • MH1006 said:

    Quit trying to be a martyr and calm the hell down. If you're trying to tell me that you're a bitch because you're infertile, you're wrong. You're just a bitch who happens to be infertile. I find it alarming that for some reason, rather than this board being about "getting pregnant" it's become an IF board full of hatred toward anyone who has not "properly" told their story of loss or grief. I didn't even start this thread. Just someone who is disturbed by how ridiculous some of you are being. I WILL judge the heart of a woman who has been through heartbreak if her heart is cruel and unkind. I commend you all for your compassion toward one another (in your clique), but cannot stand by while you continually make rude, condescending remarks toward those who's posts are not filled with enough tears and grief. Only a lurker, never wanted to be accepted, just tired of the nonsense.



    Congratulations on being exactly what you've called these ladies out for being. So the ladies here are bitches because some of us have experienced heartache beyond anything we'd wish on our worst enemy. If you had done more than just lurked and decided to jump on here and stir the pot, then you'd know that all women at all points in their TTC journey are welcome here as long as they come here with a bit of decency and respect for others. I'm glad you don't feel the need to be a part of our community, because there's no place for ignorant clowns like yourself. Please go back to lurking now.

    On top of what @caseyandlizzie said, if you really have lurked you would know that there are people here in all sorts of stages in their TTC journey. I have not been TTC for a long time and have not suffered a loss, but these women have been nothing but supportive to me! Those who have not gone through that loss (me included) do not understand their pain. If you don't want to get to know us, don't talk to us!
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  • MH1006 said:
    I keep trying to tell you that it's not about "the heartache beyond belief" you've experienced. You all keep trying to bring that into this. It's not about that, so get off your soap boxes and learn how to read. It's about being rude and obnoxious. That's it. Quit being so pathetic.

    I'm pretty sure you're the only one being rude and obnoxious here. And I like the view from on top my soap box. It's rather nice.

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    My new bff Gayle Forman!

    “You can have your wishes, your plans, but at the end of the day, it's out of your control"
    - Gayle Forman
    "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
    - Neil Gaiman

    Married Bio

    Lizzie's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)

  • MH1006MH1006 member
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    edited August 2013
    Thanks for clarifying. If I ever want financial advice or green living tips, I'll be sure to lurk and try (unsuccessfully) to improve my finances/compost pile for a few years, then properly introduce myself and try not to ask anything dumb on one of those boards.
  • And @caseyandlizzie I thought you were hitting the love it button vs the flag button and I thought you had lost your mind.
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  • Thanks for the flag! I can do that too!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • I'm a bitch because I choose to be a bitch. I'm not bitter, I don't have any known fertility issues, and I'm not a martyr. I just don't tolerate stupidity, ignorance, or lack of compassion. You're hitting the trifecta.
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  • It wasn't the message of us being mean. I wasn't going there. It was that you targeted a specific person who I care a lot about, and feel protective of, and then mentioned loss in that attack. That, to me, is just cruel.

    But, had your comment about going to Nest hell been directed at someone else, I honestly probably would have responded the same way.

    You are the mean one here.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • MH1006 said:
    Never once told anyone "f" you. Had other classless people say it to me, but never said it to them. I didn't say everyone was a bitch and infertile, but it seems like that's what you have to be in order to post around here and not be mocked. Again, I didn't start this thread, never told anyone "f" you, and never put anyone down for being infertile. I put them down for being ugly (on the inside, of course ;)). People are getting all hot and bothered over things I never even said or implied. Did I say or imply that many of you were rude and gross, though? Why yes... Yes, I did.
    Hey Lurker. At least do your job well. 

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • MH1006 said:
    Never once told anyone "f" you. Had other classless people say it to me, but never said it to them. I didn't say everyone was a bitch and infertile, but it seems like that's what you have to be in order to post around here and not be mocked. Again, I didn't start this thread, never told anyone "f" you, and never put anyone down for being infertile. I put them down for being ugly (on the inside, of course ;)). People are getting all hot and bothered over things I never even said or implied. Did I say or imply that many of you were rude and gross, though? Why yes... Yes, I did.

    If we're all "classless" what are you? Calling those you don't know rude, gross, and ugly makes you classy? I think I need a new dictionary with your definitions of classless and ignorant.
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • You told somebody that you hope there is a special place in hell to a member of our community. You have called beautiful people ugly and gross (I know, only their hearts). I don't know why Im wasting my time on you but I've never been so bothered by anything I've read here.
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