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CPW: What did you think of Miley's performance?

edited August 2013 in Getting Pregnant
If you didn't see it, here's the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1WDEfJBZXg

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CPW: What did you think of Miley's performance? 77 votes

Loved it
2% 2 votes
Totally inappropriate and disgusting
62% 48 votes
Who really cares?
24% 19 votes
Other
10% 8 votes
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Re: CPW: What did you think of Miley's performance?

  • I didn't mind it. There's a time and place for crazy performances. The VMAs is one of them.





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  • I get that the VMAs are supposed to be over the top, but she was just flat out trying too hard. And the tongue just grossed me out.
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  • I think it's disgusting that she's exploiting another culture and degrading black women by using them as props. Also, she's not freaking twerking! She's just shaking her ass back and forth.

    I think all signs point to heavy, amphetamine-type drug use and/or some sort of manic episode. In either case, I feel for the girl and hope she gets some help.
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  • I voted "other" because she is an adult and it's the VMAs so I don't think it's inappropriate. I just feel so embarrassed for her because she is trying so desperately hard to be sexy and edgy which makes what she is doing the exact opposite of sexy and edgy. I also wish she would keep her tongue in her mouth and go away for a little while!
    This.

    Plus, why isn't anyone asking if what Robin Thicke did was disgusting? There were two of them taking part in that "dance".  

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  • I voted "other" because she is an adult and it's the VMAs so I don't think it's inappropriate. I just feel so embarrassed for her because she is trying so desperately hard to be sexy and edgy which makes what she is doing the exact opposite of sexy and edgy. I also wish she would keep her tongue in her mouth and go away for a little while!
    I agree with this.  It really seemed like something was wrong with her, and that's what disturbed me.
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    I don't know that I'd say totally inappropriate and disgusting- but more like it was weird and desperate for attention.

    I don't give Robin Thicke a pass, but I don't judge him nearly as hard as Miley. He wasn't half naked, shaking his ass all over tv, using a prop to be a dick and sticking his tongue out like a fool.
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  • @PinkinProvence, @lilliesandvino, and @nfp147 have said exactly what I think. Plus, for me, it was more awkward than anything.
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  • Like @transponster said, I think it was more awkward than anything. I definitely don't think she's on drugs or having a manic episode. I just think she's a 20 year old KID who is trying so hard to shake her Disney image that she's going over the top and making bad choices.

    But holy shit, if some of the things I did when I was a 20 year old dumbass (which I was), people would be saying the same kind of stuff.

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  • I don't really care about it. But I couldn't watch it.  But that's most anything on MTV anymore for me.
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  • this is actually the first time i'm seeing this.  so first, really I don't care what Miley Cyrus does but I find the whole thing disgusting. not because of the dancing, but because of her facial expressions! she is trying waaay too hard.

     

  • I haven't watched it and I don't care to. I've heard enough about it to just pass on subjecting myself to it.
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  • Trust me on this, she is on something or is mentally ill.

    She's also exploiting another culture to shake her good girl image. This is not excusable by relative age.
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  • I feel bad for her.  This is likely going to detriment her career, and give her a bad image to everyone. You can't come back from that.

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  • I voted who cares. I used to really like Miley, but I am having a hard time defending her choices as of lately. I feel badly for people who have literally spent their whole lives in front of a camera. I can't imagine being under the microscope and judged constantly. If people cared less about the lives of celebrities, I think things would be a lot different.
  • Of course not all strange behavior is caused by illness or drug abuse, but a hell of a lot is. And that's exactly what this looks like to me.
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  • I never saw it before you posted the link, so thanks. But yeah, just weird and awful.

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  • I really don't think her twerking is all that good.

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  • I found this in my fb feed and it pretty much summarizes what I think.
    Dear Society,
    If you think a woman in a tan vinyl bra and underwear, grabbing her crotch and grinding up on a dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive but you don’t think her dance partner is raunchy, trashy, or offensive as he sings a song about “blurred” lines of consent and propagating rape culture, then you may want to reevaluate your acceptance of double standards and your belief in stereotypes about how men vs. women “should” and are “allowed” to behave.
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  • @spongebobsquarepanties

    I am an idiot and didn't realize that was what the lyrics were about.  Given, I have listened to the song like twice and haven't paid a ton of attention.

    I wonder what his wife thinks.

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  • Her solo performance was racist. Her "duet" was gross on both parts. I like the song, but Robin took part in the same behavior (I am 100% sure this was a rehearsed act). And no one is bringing up that point at all in the media.

    I don't think that "Blurred Lines" is part of rape culture. I think he is singing about a love interest in playing hard to get (the lyrics include lines about how she grabs him, etc).

    I think Miley wants attention and she got it. 
  • Just coming into add, that while while the statement expresses my disdain for people not passing the same judgement on Robin Thick when his song and video are just as provocative and raunchy as her actions. I don't feel that it is about rape, so I should have edited that from my quote. I do think that the degree to which he sexualizes women is disgusting and because of that, I don't care that she touched his d1ck. The media response is sexist.
    Also, could someone tell me what she did that was racist? I was so busy looking for the raunch that I missed it.
    Oh, and my quote is from a sexologist. I think the song could be interpreted as rape hy some.
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  • I just think she's young and trying to cause attention, similar to Britney, Lindsay, etc have done in the past.
  • @spongebobsquarepanties-- I think it can be interpreted that way too, I just don't think it is about raping a woman.

    The media response is completely sexist. 

  • So after doing some research, I realized that Miley was mimicking the moves from the unrated video version of blurred lines. Complete with the foam finger, so do what you will with that. I did not watch Miley's solo performance because I was told it was super weird and she looked like and alien and aliens scare me. I will now watch her solo performance to see what it was.

    If you watch the blurred lines unrated video, you will see it. The video is literally topless girls walking around and there are some weird props and stuff.

    Also, as a side note I just realized this was the song everyone was talking about it, and I could never focus on the lyrics because the Hey Hey Hey bit made me think of Fat Albert and it makes me giggle, so I never paid attention.
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  • Yes, even the foam finger is in the video.
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