Getting Pregnant
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

CPW: What did you think of Miley's performance?

2»

Re: CPW: What did you think of Miley's performance?

  • Panderp said:
    Yes, even the foam finger is in the video.
    I didn't realize that, and I am assuming most of the people viewing didn't either. They were so quick to judge Miley, but it was his video that was being performed.
  • @Panderp - I didn't watch the vma and missed her solo song. Woah. That's bad. I can't even think of something to say. I'm shocked. 

    @BruinsBabe33 - yah, I had heard that the video was censored because it was all nakey. Again,  I don't see why people are focused on her sexual actions, when clearly, he was part of it. Ugh. So gross.
    Eating Chocolate Bunny
    TTC since Dec. 2009. TTC buddies with Cinco and Faheat.
  • I actually had not heard this song before, so I just watched the uncensored video on youtube, and Miley was wearing WAY more clothes than the chicks in the video. Yes, her performance was quite a bit more vulgar than the girls in the video, but it looks like they just took the video a step beyond for the VMA's which has historically been the place for shock performances.

    All in all, I was embarrassed for her watching that, but she's not the only one the media should be pointing their big foam finger at.

    Also, according to the video, Robin Thicke has a big dick. So there's that.

    image
    My new bff Gayle Forman!

    “You can have your wishes, your plans, but at the end of the day, it's out of your control"
    - Gayle Forman
    "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
    - Neil Gaiman

    Married Bio

    Lizzie's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)

  • That video is so weird and so wrong. I had no idea that's where the foam finger and her outfit "inspiration" came from. 

    I think the whole performance would have been so much better if they'd both kept it cleaner, more like the video. It was just too uncomfortable to watch on stage. 

    And I still can't get over how unattractive Miley hanging her tongue out of her mouth was.
    imageimage
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
    image
    Badge Unicorn
    image
  • I do see the racism in her solo performance. Whether she meant it or even realizes it is another issue. However, I do feel that these performances need to be looked at more closely by the people choreographing them and producing them and I feel that the performers need to evaluate the things they are doing.

    If no one takes the time to analyze things like these performances, like the author of the article that was posted, they will continue. To me, that is not acceptable. There is a way of entertaining without insulting groups of people and I feel performers have a duty to do that especially now that there is so much focus on celebrity lives and what they do.

    Rhianna once said that she didn't care that her actions influence children because she is 23 and it is not her job to care what people think of her, and that is the complete wrong attitude to have. Miley is clearly exhibiting the same attitude. I also noticed no one is making a fuss over the fact that Macklemore used his award to talk about human rights.
  • I voted for gross and inappropriate (because it was) but more than anything, it's just really, really sad. I think she's a young girl who was thrown into the spotlight young (yes, their choice, but still) and is now crying out for attention, ANY attention, at any cost. I think shes trying to figure how how to be an adult star vs a child star and has no idea how to go about it bc her childhood was warped. It's actually heartbreaking to see someone go to such lengths to garner attention and stay "relevant". So, so sad. I just want to hug her and tell her she's worth so much more than the image she's trying to portray. Have a little respect for herself.

    And I'm not a fan of Robin Thicke. Now or before His part in it was just as inappropriate and he's "old enough to know better". He was grinding up on a girl who is technically young enough to be his daughter. Gross...

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic


    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


    image

  • That video is so weird and so wrong. I had no idea that's where the foam finger and her outfit "inspiration" came from. 

    I think the whole performance would have been so much better if they'd both kept it cleaner, more like the video. It was just too uncomfortable to watch on stage. 

    And I still can't get over how unattractive Miley hanging her tongue out of her mouth was.
    LOL-- um, have you seen the unedited video? Decidely not clean. 
  • @RockABye - I don't put blame on him that way. Miley Cyrus is nearly 21 years old. He is 36. That isn't "old enough to be her father" kind of age differences here. They are old enough to be consenting adults.

    I think her tongue out was wholly unattractive, but...we're talking about MTV. The shock factor is the draw for the VMAs. 
  • I guess I just mean that he appears much older than her and its weird. To me. Not that that age difference is necessarily wrong by any means. It was just incredibly awkward to watch. It very well could be in part due to her immature antics and goofy costume (pre-strip down) and that he just looks like a 30something yr old man, which he is. Meh, whatever :) I don't care for either of them, regardless of their ages or songs or so called dance moves. Probably why I don't watch or have MTV lol I haven't watched the VMAs in many years and only googled their spot after I heard all the ruckus.

    I'll crawl back under my rock now :)

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic


    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


    image

  • Panderp said:
    That video is so weird and so wrong. I had no idea that's where the foam finger and her outfit "inspiration" came from. 

    I think the whole performance would have been so much better if they'd both kept it cleaner, more like the video. It was just too uncomfortable to watch on stage. 

    And I still can't get over how unattractive Miley hanging her tongue out of her mouth was.
    LOL-- um, have you seen the unedited video? Decidely not clean. 
    Ha!! No, it's not. All I meant was that Robin and the girls in the video weren't grinding all over each other and grabbing at his crotch with the foam finger.
    imageimage
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
    image
    Badge Unicorn
    image
  • Panderp said:
    That video is so weird and so wrong. I had no idea that's where the foam finger and her outfit "inspiration" came from. 

    I think the whole performance would have been so much better if they'd both kept it cleaner, more like the video. It was just too uncomfortable to watch on stage. 

    And I still can't get over how unattractive Miley hanging her tongue out of her mouth was.
    LOL-- um, have you seen the unedited video? Decidely not clean. 
    Ha!! No, it's not. All I meant was that Robin and the girls in the video weren't grinding all over each other and grabbing at his crotch with the foam finger.
    Nope! They just had their boobs out flapping in the wind and getting sodomized by giant needles! No crotch grabbing, though so that's good! ;-)
  • LuckyAngel07LuckyAngel07 member
    Seventh Anniversary 5000 Comments 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited August 2013
    BruinsBabe33 said: LuckyAngel07 said: Panderp said: LuckyAngel07 said: That video is so weird and so wrong. I had no idea that's where the foam finger and her outfit "inspiration" came from. 
    I think the whole performance would have been so much better if they'd both kept it cleaner, more like the video. It was just too uncomfortable to watch on stage. 
    And I still can't get over how unattractive Miley hanging her tongue out of her mouth was. LOL-- um, have you seen the unedited video? Decidely not clean.  Ha!! No, it's not. All I meant was that Robin and the girls in the video weren't grinding all over each other and grabbing at his crotch with the foam finger. Nope! They just had their boobs out flapping in the wind and getting sodomized by giant needles! No crotch grabbing, though so that's good! ;-)

    Okay, okaaaaaay so maybe "clean" wasn't the word for it. Both performance and video were/are incredibly wrong, but something about the way Robin and Miley performed it on stage icked me out more than the video (which still icked me out substantially).

    imageimage
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
    image
    Badge Unicorn
    image
  • @LuckyAngel07 Latex underroos creep me out, too!
  • When I watched it, I couldn't believe how inappropriate it was. I do agree with the ladies that said it is more desperate and sad than anything. To me, it seemed like she was purposely going for that shock value to get all this attention. I guess she got what she wanted!

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    TTC #1 since July 2012

    Cycles 1-9: BFN
    Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
    EDD: June 25, 2014
    Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

    My TTC Journey Blog

  • When I watched it, I couldn't believe how inappropriate it was. I do agree with the ladies that said it is more desperate and sad than anything. To me, it seemed like she was purposely going for that shock value to get all this attention. I guess she got what she wanted!

    Was SHE going for the shock value, though? Like it has been posted, she was mimicking HIS video. She got the all of the criticism for a duet, and he certainly wasn't pushing her away saying, "Whoa, this may be inappropriate!"
  • @bruinsbabe33, true. When I saw Robin Thicke's uncensored video I couldn't believe that either. Justin Timberlake had a similar video that I saw for his song Tunnel Vision. I don't get what is with this trend of practically naked women in music videos. I know that women have always been somewhat objectified in popular culture but it seems like it's going to new heights lately.

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    TTC #1 since July 2012

    Cycles 1-9: BFN
    Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
    EDD: June 25, 2014
    Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

    My TTC Journey Blog

  • @Uptowngirl2009 I would be ok with Justin being naked... I mean...

    In all seriousness, I don't get the naked women thing. It seems to be getting much worse in pop culture I think there is something to be said about leaving something up to the imagination.

    If they are going to take it there why not have everyone be naked? Let's just forget about clothes all together! But only the attractive people that fit the right body type! Can't have any uglies or fatties then it is just crude!
  • I dunno. The toplessness in the uncensored video didn't really bother me. I thought it was tasteful in a "playboy vs. hustler" kind of way.

    Also, none of the models in the video used that foam finger as mock penis.

    At least they were good looking, real boobs?
    imageimageimageAnniversary
  • I dunno. The toplessness in the uncensored video didn't really bother me. I thought it was tasteful in a "playboy vs. hustler" kind of way. Also, none of the models in the video used that foam finger as mock penis. At least they were good looking, real boobs?
    I donno if they were real... A lot of them stayed really still while they were dancing... Usually you get a bit of jiggle... but I am admittedly really bad at the "Are they real?" game.
  • Haha let's make you flash cards.
    imageimageimageAnniversary

  • Haha let's make you flash cards.
    I am a visual learner!
  • Those tits were amazing.
  • We had to change the channel. I thought it was just too weird.

    It made me very uncomfortable.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
    image
    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards