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When Did You Have Sex with DH?

How long did it take? Hours? Days? Months? Spill it!

Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Hours. lol. We were having sex for like 3 weeks before we were dating!   :\">
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    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

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  • We were together in early high school for two years and we didn't do it then BUT then when we got back together shortly after high school it was like maybe a few days maybe a week. Like the 2nd or 3rd time we saw each other.
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  • I made DH wait about 4 weeks. I'd had a string of flings that hadn't worked out right before and I though that DH might be the one and waiting would be worth it. Looked like it was.
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    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

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  • It was about three weeks into dating, I think. I can't really remember and I'm not sure if that's good or bad.
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  • Second date.  So about 36 hours after we met for our first date. 

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  • It was technically our third date. But honestly, we met on eharmony and had a lot of prior knowledge/convos/chemistry beforehand as well.

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                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
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  • Second date here. And like I said in FFC, that's probably just because I had AF. lol

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • I honestly don't even remember. It was a couple dates in, though, so maybe 2 weeks?

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  • About 2 months into dating.  I was 16 and he was 18 though, and we were both virgins.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • Third date, but within the second week. We did sleep in the same bed once and not have sex in that time too.
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  • 4 days. We had known each other for years before, though.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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  • We met then hung out the next day. I had just been dumped and H and I got a bit friendly, but I put a stop to it because I didn't want him to not go out with me because he thought I was easy. A week later started dating, had sex the next day. So you're pick  >:D<
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • LOL we were banging loooong before our relationship even had a title. Sometimes I  miss those days... ::SIIIIIIGH::
  • it was somewhere between 3-4 weeks of dating.

    I didn't want to be slutty and put out and he thought I was just being a prude

  • Just shy of a month. I think we had 3 or 4 date dates, then I came over for his annual FriendsGiving. That was the first night I slept over, and the first night we DTD

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    After 2 years of TTC, lots of tests, and a Hysteroscopy/Laparoscopy to remove several polyps,
    Clomid/IUI #1 3/14: cancelled due to surprise BFP 3/8/14.
    Beta 1 3/11: 398  Beta 2 3/13: 728  Beta 3 3/20: 11,482 
    Surprise BFP turns into Surprise Twins! 

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  • We were seniors in high school when we started dating. We waited about 5 months.

    It would have been sooner, but he was a virgin and I had a little PTSD from something that had happened before H and I was scared.
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  • Hours.  I mentioned that in FFC.  We met through friends, at a bar, and had shared many pitchers of Bud Light.  I was 21.  We went back to my friend's apartment and when everyone else went to bed, we did it on the living room floor.  We woke up the next morning and he asked me if I had a boyfriend.  I said no, and then checked his driver license when he was in the bathroom because I couldn't remember his name (I knew the letter it began with... but... ).

    God, I hope I never have a daughter like that.  That was my first one night stand, and it backfired.  :) 

    I love this story.

    He was my first and only. We waited two or three months.
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  • 8 weeks. 
    We were 15 and 16 and each other's firsts! 
    ---Started TTC 12/1/11--- 
    Cycle 1 - 13 BFN
    Cycle 14 Surgery complete! 
    BFP 2/27/13.already 9 weeks!.missed m/c 3/27/13. Baby stopped growing at 10 w 5 d 
    DNC 3/28/13
    Cycle 15-17 BFN, Lets go 18!
    TTC buddies with sparklingdiamond and amandaf6383
  • First date here. I think it worked out pretty well.
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    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
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  • abt8113abt8113 member
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    edited August 2013
    I feel like a total prude now!!!  We did it one time when we were dating (we got really drunk and did it about 9 mos in).  I totally got freaked out about getting pregnant (oh how life has changed), and we didn't have intercourse again until we were married.  We both come from really conservative families, and I was really freaked out about getting pregnant and not being married.  We did everything else though. He was my first and only.
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  • Xan921Xan921 member
    Seventh Anniversary 5000 Comments 500 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited August 2013
    Dh and I didn't have sex for about a year after we met but we dated on and off, we lived 2.5 hours apart, he was still a virgin, and I'd casually sleep with other people because I wasn't ready to commit, so it was kind of a different situation.  I did give him a bj on the first night we hung out though. 
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    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
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  • Three weeks.  We were 31 and 34 when we met, so we'd both been with a few other people. Heck, he was married once before!  Something told me not to rush things with him; perhaps I knew this was a good one   :x
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    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

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  • On our third date...which was like the 2nd or 3rd week we were dating I think.
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  • @abt8113 - You shouldn't feel like a prude! Every person and every situation is different. No woman should ever feel bad about her sexuality, whatever end of the spectrum she's on!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • I was 25 (virgin) and my husband was 29 (and not a virgin). We waited 7 months. I don't regret waiting till 25 or waiting the 7 months.

    I should also footnote this and explain that there were a few factors involved.....
    1. He was only supposed to be a summer romance. I never intended on falling in love.
    2. I had to get on the pill and get my body to adjust.
    3. When we (I) were ready his father passed away unexpectedly and we didn't want his death to the be reason.

    Anyway, who cares. It worked out the way it was intended and I'm happily married to this wonderful and (obviously) patient man. :-)
  • We DTD 11 days after our first date. He was my first. It probably would have been sooner, but I had my period

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    off bcp 11/11
    a few rounds of clomid and femara... no response.
    injectables/IUI 12/12... BFN
    Feb 13 IVF cycle converted down to IUI due to low follicle response... BFFN
    one last IVF attempt April/May 2013: 19 retrieved. 10 fertilized. 2 transferred in a 3dt. 4 frosties... BFP!!
    EDD: 1/21/14... Induced early at 36+6. Our LO was born 12/30/13
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  • I'm the prude, we waited a year and a half. We were 19 when we started dating and both virgins. I had it in my head that I was going to wait for marriage but eh, that didn't happen. Sex wasn't really something that happened in my small town, especially in my group of friends.
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  • Third date, but within the second week. We did sleep in the same bed once and not have sex in that time too.

    @seahorse I slept in the same bed with J tons of times before we dated. And lots of other men too for that matter. In a cuddler what can I say.
    Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007
    2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.
    RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds:  BFNs 12/12-2/13
    IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13

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