TTC Check In!

Sewilson33 · September 2013

Happy Thursday Everyone! The week is almost over!

How many months/cycles have you been TTC?
Where are you in your cycle?
Any plans for testing this week?
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general?
Thoughts, questions, concerns?

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG?
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have?
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone.

LuckyAngel07 · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 14 months/12th cycle

Where are you in your cycle? CD 5

Any plans for testing this week? Nope; nada to test for.

Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? Ordered 2 new pairs of heels this morning. They'll be in my hands tomorrow. I

shoes.

Thoughts, questions, concerns? Thoughts: I'm thinking about ditching the "trying" this month and just going with whatever. No OPKs, no forced timing, and only temping until I confirm O so that I have a clue when to expect AF since my cycles are (as confirmed by FF) irregular, and I still want to have some clue of what's going on.

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? All the junk that I'm usually able to avoid. Fried everything, loads of salty stuff, probably lots of mac'n'cheese.

CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? Yes I absolutely would! My mom dressed up my sister and I as little ghouls; we were only about 4 months old. I don't have any specific ideas on a baby costume, but something adorable and cuddly most likely.

QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. Meh...I'm feeling over it today. AF is wrapping up, and after the emotional toll her arrival took on me last weekend, I need to take a step back and focus elsewhere. DH had zero sympathy for my being upset, which didn't help anything. Not going to dwell on that or I'll just get all riled up again.

Sewilson33 · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 9 months/9cycles
Where are you in your cycle? CD 26 DPO 11
Any plans for testing this week? If my temps elevate a little more I might test Sunday.
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? I realized that I get so upset when my in laws do dinner with my nephews and don't invite us. I realized this is bc I need to see the boys bc it somehow makes me feel better about now having my own yet. It's like a baby fix to hold me over for a little while. So when I miss out on these dinner nights I tend to get depressed a little.
Thoughts, questions, concerns? Well I posted last week about the scary ovary pains I had around O time. I called my Doctor and the nurse said it seems to just be from ovulating and she would pass the message along to the doctor. No need for me to go in. This irritated me a little... I would have like them to at least SEE me to cover all our bases.

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? Peanut Butter! You will probably find me spoon feeding myself PB all the time!
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? I won't be able to resist doing this... And he/she will probably be dressed up in something that is kind of flexible like caterpillar costume.
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I am EXHAUSTED! I woke up at 4:45 and never fell back asleep so I am running on empty. I just feel like I'm not PG this month, IDK how to explain it. I'm a little frustrated with myself for being so negative but I can't seem to get out of my funk.

Sewilson33 · September 2013

LuckyAngel07 said:

QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. Meh...I'm feeling over it today. AF is wrapping up, and after the emotional toll her arrival took on me last weekend, I need to take a step back and focus elsewhere. DH had zero sympathy for my being upset, which didn't help anything. Not going to dwell on that or I'll just get all riled up again.

My DH reacts the same way when AF comes. Sorry...

brij2006 · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 6 months / Cycle 3

Where are you in your cycle? CD6

Any plans for testing this week? Nope.

Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? Get the U/S done tomorrow, and am on day 2 of Clomid. Holy Hell, talk about hot flashes. I'm usually cold all the time, but today I'm just plan hot. It sucks, and my co-worker thinks I'm sick because I turned the A/C down in the office.

Thoughts, questions, concerns? I need to have a conversation with H about changing Dr's. After my post yesterday about Clomid and the monitoring, I'm not sure I want to stick with my OB for more testing and treatments. I also spoke with my cousin about this (who went through the same Dr as me), and she said she switched to an RE after a couple of months (which I didn't know about), and recommended one that is about an hour away (instead of 1.5). So we may be taking the plunge to a different Dr soon.

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? I'll be one of those weird people that craves pickles and ice cream.

CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? Of course. I've already told H that if we have twins they will be Thing 1 and Thing 2. Not sure what I will dress 1 child up as, but they will be partaking in the festivities.

QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I'm feeling okay. This is our first round of Clomid, and I'm just plain nervous. We are doing a bunch of remodeling on the outside of our house right now, and it's going to deplete quite a bit of our remodel budget for the rest of the year. So we had a discussion about "if" this round of Clomid works, and how we will afford to remodel the rest of the house before baby comes (the baby's room and rec room). We're hopeful the Clomid makes my body work, but we're also nervous and scared for if it does.

brij2006 · September 2013

@luckyangel07

Sorry your DH wasn't understanding your emotions about AF. Sometimes I think guys "cope" better by shutting down and not discussing it. Especially if he hasn't been tested yet. Maybe he feels like he may be the problem, and he doesn't want to confirm it.

If you need to talk, just let me know.

transponster · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 12 months. :-<
Where are you in your cycle? CD 7.
Any plans for testing this week? lulz. I may start OPKs next week though.
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? Eh, you know. Hitting a year sucks, but I'm trying to take it in stride.
Thoughts, questions, concerns? I made an appointment with my OBGYN for the 30th. I'm not sure what will happen at this appointment, but it's a start. I've also started researching REs in my area. I'm trying not to be overwhelmed, but it's hard.

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? Lots of salt and foods I can't have, like oysters.
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? If I have one before then, yes. I haven't thought about what though, and even I have a hard time figuring out what to be, so that'll probably extend to my LO.
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I'm ok. H is trying to make me feel better by reminding me that we initially weren't going to start trying until our 5th anniversary, but it doesn't help when other women around me are getting pregnant.

transponster · September 2013

@LuckyAngel07 I'm sorry about your H not understanding. It sucks and I've felt that way before.

callitcompulsive · September 2013

Hey lovelies!

@luckyangel07, I'm sorry your H had zero sympathy for you over the weekend. Even if you kind of take a break this cycle, I'm still gonna be here with my pom poms, rooting for you!
@brij2007, I hope the clomid helps you! GL with the new doc, if that's the route you decide to go!
@sewilson33, FX that those temps stay up for you!
@transponster, GL at your appointment on the 30th! Hopefully you'll come out of there with a plan for moving forward in your journey!

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 2nd cycle
Where are you in your cycle? CD3
Any plans for testing this week? Nope
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? Eh not really. Same shit, different day.
Thoughts, questions, concerns? N/A

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? Probably all kinds of junk I shouldn't be eating anyways; pregnant or not.
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? I don't know--I don't forsee us going trick or treating with an under 2-3 year old so... IDK.
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I feel fine enough I guess. Still preoccupied with H's possible promotion and the medical stuff going on with his mom and my grandma.

LuckyAngel07 · September 2013

Thanks for the understanding, ladies.

brij2006 said:

@luckyangel07
Sorry your DH wasn't understanding your emotions about AF. Sometimes I think guys "cope" better by shutting down and not discussing it. Especially if he hasn't been tested yet. Maybe he feels like he may be the problem, and he doesn't want to confirm it.
If you need to talk, just let me know.

That's definitely how he is: shutdown with no discussion. He's like that with everything. He really just is not a talker when it comes to anything hard, so it's like freaking pulling teeth getting him to really discuss anything or understand where I'm coming from. It's one of the most frustrating parts of our relationship (at least to me, I doubt he even thinks about it, lol).

callitcompulsive · September 2013

LuckyAngel07 said:

Thanks for the understanding, ladies.

brij2006 said:

@luckyangel07
Sorry your DH wasn't understanding your emotions about AF. Sometimes I think guys "cope" better by shutting down and not discussing it. Especially if he hasn't been tested yet. Maybe he feels like he may be the problem, and he doesn't want to confirm it.
If you need to talk, just let me know.

That's definitely how he is: shutdown with no discussion. He's like that with everything. He really just is not a talker when it comes to anything hard, so it's like freaking pulling teeth getting him to really discuss anything or understand where I'm coming from. It's one of the most frustrating parts of our relationship (at least to me, I doubt he even thinks about it, lol).

I can commiserate here. I have one just like that at home.

brij2006 · September 2013

@luckyangel07 & @callitcompulsive

My H is the same way too. What I've found that helps, is to tell him that I want to discuss TTC with thim at some point within the next week, and whenever he is in the mood or ready to talk about it. Then let me know. This makes him aware that we need to have an in depth conversation about our future, and puts the ball in his court to be able to decide when he wants to discuss it.

I've already learned my lesson to not bring it up out of the blue. It makes him shut down, and I feel like I'm the only one stressing over it, which makes me feel even more alone. But if he ever brings it up on a whim, be prepared to discuss it and do so lightly. H has told me that he goes through the same emotions and thoughts as me, but he doesn't speak them out like I do. He just lets it bottle up inside.

I also keep him in the know about things. I will let him know what the Dr says or when I'm starting a certain medication or getting a test done. But I make him aware that it doesn't mean I want to discuss it in depth.

PandPMeant2B · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? just 1!
Where are you in your cycle? 13 DPO (I think)
Any plans for testing this week? Next week, if AF doesn't come by Wednesday.
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? life in general is good. WAY too soon to start talking about any bads in regards to TCC
Thoughts, questions, concerns? I've found I'm playing head games with myself and I hate it! I've been feeling like garbage for a few weeks and experiencing mild symptoms; things I've never felt. I am totally trying to convince myself it's anything BUT PG. I don't want to get my hopes up, as we literally just started TTC and there is a history of TTTC with the women in my family. These symptoms can't possibly ALL be in my head; I just hope if it's not PG that it's nothing to worry about!

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? Probably most things you're not supposed to eat. Some of my favorite foods are sushi and all sorts of cheeses. I don't eat processed flour or refined sugar, so I'll probably crave lots of junk too!
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? Absolutely. I doubt I would take a baby trick or treating, but I think there are a lot of cute ideas out there, so I doubt I'd be able to resist dressing the baby up. I especially love the baby dressed as a lobster being carried around in a big pot.
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I've been feeling very "blah" lately. I'm pretty sure I'm just finally coming off the emotional high of the wedding/honeymoon. The nausea and "weird feelings" lasted about two weeks and disappeared a few days ago. And as I'm typing this I'm starting to get cramps. So there's that.

LuckyAngel07 · September 2013

PandPMeant2B said:
Where are you in your cycle? 13 DPO (I think)
Any plans for testing this week? Next week, if AF doesn't come by Wednesday.

If you're already 13 DPO (done any sort of charting to know you O'd?), you definitely don't need to wait until next Wednesday to test. If you don't have AF by this weekend, I'd test Sunday at the latest. 13 or 14 DPO is typically late enough to get a reliable HPT result, so testing this weekend is more than enough time to wait.

PandPMeant2B · September 2013

LuckyAngel07 said:
If you're already 13 DPO (done any sort of charting to know you O'd?), you definitely don't need to wait until next Wednesday to test. If you don't have AF by this weekend, I'd test Sunday at the latest. 13 or 14 DPO is typically late enough to get a reliable HPT result, so testing this weekend is more than enough time to wait.

Thanks, @LuckyAngel07. I have been regular my whole life, but the only "charting" I've done is tracking AF on an app and making sure when I feel symptoms of O (which I do just about every month), it coincides with the day the app says I should be (real scientific, I know). I guess since it's our first month TTC, I didn't want to be over-excited (even though I know it's been enough time), and somehow waiting until I actually miss AF made sense to me. But you're right, it's better to know sooner. I'm new to all this, so thanks for being patient with me lol.

transponster · September 2013

@callitcompulsive thanks! I'm nervous about what will happen and what might be wrong, because I've never had a DX of anything that could be wrong. I don't know. I just have a lot of feelings about it and don't know how to express it or who to talk to.

nightmare_of_beauty · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 4 months

Where are you in your cycle? CD 26

Any plans for testing this week? Just seeing how things go

Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? Thankfully I've been in a better mood lately. I might be taking a second job for a cousin doing some office work, just for extra cash.

Thoughts, questions, concerns? Hope no one minds me jumping in, I haven't been trying that long.

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? There's a Japaneses steakhouse that I have a feeling I will crave the salad dressing. H hates it.

CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? Yes, my friend is dressing hers up as a penguin this year and I told her I'm stealing it.

QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone.

I'm doing good. My H has taken a bit more control over TTC this month which took some of the stress off me. I've been able to realize how much pressure I was putting on myself and I think I'll handle everything better now that I took a step back.

@LuckyAngel07 Sorry your H isn't more understanding.

blueeyedblossom · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC?
9 months/ 4 cycles, 1 year after coming off HBC. :-/

Where are you in your cycle?
CD 89

Any plans for testing this week?
No point.

Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general?
Good- I made an appt today and had a really understanding medical assistant. I feel hopeful for this appointment that something is going to get done. If she doesn't do any testing I may finally bite the bullet and find someone closer.
Bad- I'm on CD89, have had 4 cycles in 9 months and have been off birth control for a year. WTF body?!?!

I also go back to my endo to see what my thyroid levels are now, hopefully it's getting back in gear!

Thoughts, questions, concerns?
I'm hopeful that with these two appointments in the next week and a half (the12th&16th) will get the ball rolling on some testing and baby making.

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG?
Probably everything I'm not supposed to have- cold cuts, sushi, liquor, etc.

CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have?
Probably. And definitely a rubber duck.

QOTW: How are you feeling today in general?
Meh. I went and had blood drawn this morning, bought myself a pumpkin spice frappe from Starbucks. Went to get a haircut and eyebrow wax, followed by a trip to the mall for some fall candles from Yankee Candle. And now I am home cleaning. I've deep cleaned the bathroom and started dishes and laundry. I'm feeling productive today. :-)

Sewilson33 · September 2013

@blueeyedblossom I'm glad you found a medical assistant who understands. Hope your appointment goes well!

abt8113 · September 2013

@luckyangel07 Sorry for everything that you are going through. I know it sucks! DH has just started opening up about his disappointments, so hopefully yours will too!
@brij2007 Good luck with finding a new doctor! Hope you find someone that you feel comfortable with!

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 10 mos/10 cycles
Where are you in your cycle?cd 6
Any plans for testing this week? using the OPKs that Jenna sent me next week.
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? I'm just starting to get anxious. DH and I finally had a conversation about the future and what happens if we cannot concieve soon. I have gotten DH to agree about going back to the doctor in January if we haven't concieved. He wanted it to be March because in his head it was 1 year and 6 mos after I stopped taking BC (1 year of TTC plus 6 mos of my body getting off BC). I wanted Nov (one year of TTC). We settled on Jan. He also talked about how he was willing to do all kinds of ways to concieve a baby including a surrogate. I was shocked since he is very much "it will happens when it is supposed to" kind of guy. I don't know if I want to go the surrogate route, so that was an interesting convo.
Thoughts, questions, concerns?

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG?I'm sure it will be all sorts of things that I'm either not allowed to eat or lots of sweets.
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? I saw this idea on pinterest of doing a baby as a Cabbage Patch Doll. It would be hilarious! I would definitely dress them up in something just for the cuteness factor.
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I'm okay this month. It seems to be an every other month breakdown for me. Last month, I was a mess, but this month was not as bad. I think because our timing was off (and FF possibly too), I expected this month to be nothing.

Uptowngirl2009 · September 2013

Hi ladies! I'm just popping in to say hello. I decided to move over to the 3T check in since this cycle was a bust and we're waiting for our first IF appointment on September 18th. But I am still thinking about all of you and cheering you on!

callitcompulsive · September 2013

Damnit, AF! I'm sorry @uptowngirl2009. I hope your appointment on the 18th gives you some answers/some direction on moving forward!

abt8113 · September 2013

@UPTOWNGIRL2009 Sorry to hear about this month! Good luck with your appointment in 2 weeks!

Sewilson33 · September 2013

@uptowngirl2009 Good luck with the appointment!

Uptowngirl2009 · September 2013

Thanks @callitcompulsive, @sewilson33, and @abt8113!

LuckyAngel07 · September 2013

GL at your first appt @Uptowngirl2009. I'm still waiting for DH to get off his ass and do his SA before I make any 3T moves. ((Hugs)) for the suckiness of it all.

DangerMuffin23 · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 11 months/ 11cycles coming on 12
Where are you in your cycle? 9 dpo
Any plans for testing this week? testing tomorrow at 10 dpo bc DH is leaving the country saturday and I would want him to know. Normally Ive been waiting for AF to show.
Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? If this cycle doesn't pan out ( next cycle is pretty much a no go since DH will be gone until the DAY of O and I don't think he'll be up to it.) I'll be looking into doing a round of Clomid.

Thoughts, questions, concerns? I've been enjoying the "School me on Clomid and OPK's" thread. Very informative :-)

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? Salty stuff, ice cream
CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? Oh yeah :-) prob the norm, like a little pumpkin or cute animal.
QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone.

I don't really feel any different then normal soooo, I'm doubtful I'm pg. It would be nice, but my hopes aren't crazy high and I don't really like testing before AF is a no-show.

brij2006 · September 2013

@uptowngirl2009 Good luck at your first appointment.

@dangermuffin23 Good luck testing. Hopefully you won't need Clomid next cycle.
Also, I'm enjoying the Clomid thread too. ;-)

LuckyAngel07 · September 2013

GL @DangerMuffin23! And remember, even if tomorrow's HPT is negative, you're not necessarily out, since 10 DPO is still pretty early.

DangerMuffin23 · September 2013

@LuckyAngel07 Oh absolutely. I really wish I didn't have to test so early bc I hate seeing negatives. If it's positive, great, if not I'll wait for AF and if it's a no show i'll test in a week.

@brij2006 Thanks :-)

islandmonkey8 · September 2013

How many months/cycles have you been TTC? 8 months/Cycle 5

Where are you in your cycle? CD6

Any plans for testing this week? Don't think so

Any goods or bads in regards to TTC or life in general? Good - 4 day weekend! Bad - DH works the first two days and has a bacholer party the third day/overnight so most of my days will be only me.

Thoughts, questions, concerns? Not currently

CBHQ: What kind of foods could you see yourself craving when PG? I already crave everything. I have no idea. DH jokes that I'll be sending him for pickles and ice cream. Honestly, I've debated doing that already and I'm not pg.

CBHQ: Would you dress your newborn up for their first Halloween? If so, what ideas do you have? Oh my gosh yes! No idea what... too many choices. It is hard enough picking out a costume for my dog every year!!

QOTW: How are you feeling today in general? A lot of us are in our TWW and some of us are just being graced with AF's presence so I just wanted to take a moment to check in on everyone. I am enjoying my day off. I mowed the lawn, took the dog to the vet, made brownies for later. My parents are coming over for dinner tonight. I made kahula pork (20 hours in the crockpot!), pineapple quinoa salad, and snow peas! I can't wait to eat!

Lots of luck for all the ladies in the 2WW, hoping to see some BFP's!

Cheers (the booze kind!) to new cycles for those starting again!

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