Getting Pregnant
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

A MOD FOR THE GETTING PREGNANT BOARD

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Re: A MOD FOR THE GETTING PREGNANT BOARD

  • NestCayla said:
    I'm with MOA on this. If someone sent in my name, I wouldn't want to do it. I think people should first express interest. I don't care how the vote happens- whether it be via clicky poll or PM.
    How about his... if you do NOT want to be in the running as a mod PM me that detail and if your name is voted for I will know that you do not want to be in the running.

    PM me if you have any other questions about this

    thanks
    WTF
    It's clear that a few of you do not want to be a mod and if that's the case then you can just tell me; just like if you would like to nominate yourself -- you can include either detail in a PM.

    I will note everything that everyone sends me. I'm flexible and ready to make sure that you guys get the best mod possible.

    Greatly appreciate everyone who follows up via PM!


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  • Be prepared to get eleventy billion PMs.....
    I'm ready!


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  • I'm not sending a PM to let you know I don't want to do it...  I'm a rebel, yo.  Just note that I don't want to do it.  :)
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  • @nest cayla ygpm

    And everyone else, don't include me. I don't want to do it even though I seem to always be here.
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    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
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    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
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  • @nest cayla ygpm And everyone else, don't include me. I don't want to do it even though I seem to always be here.
    Thanks @ILoveRedVino ! Got it, and responded! :-)


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  • While it's definitely easier to vote through a clicky poll, it actually makes sense to me for it to be done through PM. People "nominated" won't be able to see how many votes they get (or don't get), which could lead to hurt feelings if someone who gets a ton of votes doesn't get asked to be a mod for whatever reason, or if someone who wants to be a mod doesn't get many votes from the board.
    I knew you were against clicky polls, too! If someone is going to get butt hurt over not having a lot of votes they probably don't have the emotional capacity to moderate an Internet forum. I'm not saying a clicky poll would be the end all be all of it because obviously you can't have a mod that isn't capable of doing the job, but people should be able to volunteer themselves because it is a commitment.
    I have a problem making single choices! I need ALL the options, and clicky polls restrict me freedom of expression! 

    That doesn't mean I don't want the rest of you to have them though. :)
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  • While it's definitely easier to vote through a clicky poll, it actually makes sense to me for it to be done through PM. People "nominated" won't be able to see how many votes they get (or don't get), which could lead to hurt feelings if someone who gets a ton of votes doesn't get asked to be a mod for whatever reason, or if someone who wants to be a mod doesn't get many votes from the board.

    I knew you were against clicky polls, too! If someone is going to get butt hurt over not having a lot of votes they probably don't have the emotional capacity to moderate an Internet forum. I'm not saying a clicky poll would be the end all be all of it because obviously you can't have a mod that isn't capable of doing the job, but people should be able to volunteer themselves because it is a commitment.

    I have a problem making single choices! I need ALL the options, and clicky polls restrict me freedom of expression! 

    That doesn't mean I don't want the rest of you to have them though. :)

    I will not be voting for you because of your anti-clicky poll stance. I take clicky polls very seriously. ;-)
  • @seahorse01 Do I get to pick the baby? How quickly will I get the baby? If I don't get the baby in that amount of time can I impeach? 
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    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • @seahorse01 Do I get to pick the baby? How quickly will I get the baby? If I don't get the baby in that amount of time can I impeach? 
    Yes you can totally pick.  Within a year.  Impeachment is expected and encouraged.
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  • Panderp said:
    Also, Seahorse and I could be co-mods. @nestcayla bold talked me the other day, so I've already been through the scared straight program here. I also drink heavily.
    Look, I don't even know you.
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  • Panderp said:
    How about everyone PM everyone and then we'll combine the PMs and PM everyone so that it's simple? Or we could just PM everyone except the ones we PM'd.
    Just PM me and I'll take care of it

    Again, apologies for the bolded text the other day, it was unintentional


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  • LuckyAngel07LuckyAngel07 member
    Seventh Anniversary 5000 Comments 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited September 2013
    NestCayla's "thanks for understanding" is the new ban proof way of saying "fuck off"

    =))

    I'm going to start saying this every time I want someone to GTFO.
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  • Nest Cayla, you told me "thanks for understanding" twice in this post... are you trying to tell me something?  lol
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  • zamboni00 said:
    So my takeaways from is are 1. NestCayla's "thanks for understanding" is the new ban proof way of saying "fuck off" and 2. Secret PM voting is her way to tell us all 'thanks for understanding' cause she is picking the mod and it won't be a Bitter Betty 3ter damnit or someone that actually calls people out for rude, insensitive, and /or dumb or cruel comments and actions. She wants puppies and rainbows ya'll
    Fixed that for ya.
    I loled for real.
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  • mathgal1025 said: That is why I'm mathgal not grammargal:)  Dude, I just figured out what my new screen name should be...how do I get them to let me change it?!
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  • CeciliaM21CeciliaM21 member
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    edited September 2013
    That is why I'm mathgal not grammargal:) 
    Dude, I just figured out what my new screen name should be...how do I get them to let me change it?!

    PMing Nest Cayla? Although, with the current GP race for MOD, she might be bombarded with PMs.
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    5/2012 = Surprise BFP M/C @ 6 weeks
    5/2013 - Femara, Trigger + IUI + Prog = BFN
    8/2013 - Injects, Trigger + IUI + Prog =BFP M/C @ 6 weeks
    3/2014 - IVF - BFP M/C @ 7weeks 

  • So who's going to create the clicky poll anyway, just to see if the results match up?

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  • nfp147 said:
    @seahorse01 Do I get to pick the baby? How quickly will I get the baby? If I don't get the baby in that amount of time can I impeach? 
    Yes you can totally pick.  Within a year.  Impeachment is expected and encouraged.
    Do we have to pay shipping on these babies? if so, I need a light one.
    This just made me fucking snort.
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  • nfp147 said:
    @seahorse01 Do I get to pick the baby? How quickly will I get the baby? If I don't get the baby in that amount of time can I impeach? 
    Yes you can totally pick.  Within a year.  Impeachment is expected and encouraged.
    Do we have to pay shipping on these babies? if so, I need a light one.
    This just made me fucking snort.
    Shipping to Canada is not cheap.

    I also need you to write "gift" on the box so I don't pay duty.
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  • nfp147 said:
    nfp147 said:
    @seahorse01 Do I get to pick the baby? How quickly will I get the baby? If I don't get the baby in that amount of time can I impeach? 
    Yes you can totally pick.  Within a year.  Impeachment is expected and encouraged.
    Do we have to pay shipping on these babies? if so, I need a light one.
    This just made me fucking snort.
    Shipping to Canada is not cheap.

    I also need you to write "gift" on the box so I don't pay duty.
    Well, I don't know if you know this, but I happen to have an in with a shipping company, so free shipping is a bonus- but only if you cast your vote today.  Go ahead and order that chunky baby, I won't tell anybody. 

    And of course it will be marked gift, the greatest gift a vagina can give.
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