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TTC Check In

Ugh it's only Thursday!!!!! Check in Time!!
I'm so happy for everyone that got their BFP but I don't know about any of you but I'm in need of a "hug" right now with the baby boom going around!

How many months/cycle have you been TTC?
Where are you in your cycle?
Any testing plans OPK's HPT?
Any goods or bad this week?
Thoughts, questions, concerns?

QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?
CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal?


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  • How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 10 months/ 10 cycles
    Where are you in your cycle? CD 4
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? None
    Any goods or bad this week? Well I got AF on Monday so that's a boo... AF literally last 1 1/2 days which is nice but confusing and weird. I'm also starting to feel the pressure of making DH go and do a SA now that I hit 10 months.
    Thoughts, questions, concerns? What the heck did every one drink this month that got so many nesties KU!?!?! I want some!!!

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall? I like the fall but I am definitely not a fall lover. I like apple picking and pulling out my boots from the closet. Fall brings winter and I hate winter time so that's about all I enjoy with the fall.
    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? If this cycle works for us... we would probably tell our family on Thanksgiving and would put a Big Brother t shirt on our dog. If it isn't this cycle it is next cycle I would wait until Christmas and give everyone some sort of baby related gift when exchanging gifts.

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    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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  • (((Hugs))) it's definitely been hard for me with all the BFPs and AF in town. I feel discouraged.

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC?
    Been off BC 1 year, trying for 9 months with this starting cycle 5, I think.

    Where are you in your cycle?
    CD6

    Any testing plans OPK's HPT?
    Nope

    Any goods or bad this week?
    I have an appt with my endo at 1:30 today and an appt Monday at 2 with my OBGYN. Maybe they'll start doing something for me.
    I've been especially down lately, but I'm trying to turn it all around. I started back to temping this morning, so hopefully I won't be quite as lost in my cycles again.

    Thoughts, questions, concerns?


    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?
    I LOVE all things fall!!! It's my favorite time of the year.

    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal?

    I'm not sure i would be able to wait until the holidays to tell! But with as long as my cycles are, I probably will find out right before them! Haha, I try not to think too much about it. It just seems to make me more sad when AF arrives.
  • How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 12 months.
    Where are you in your cycle? CD 14.
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? I should probably use an OPK to see if I'm surging. I'll do that when I get home, and tomorrow.
    Any goods or bad this week? Eh, I'm burned out with grad school, and it's only week 3. 13 more weeks until winter break! Also, Monday was a rough day TTC-wise. I want it to be the 30th so I can get started on this thing and see what's going on.
    Thoughts, questions, concerns? Nope. Same shit, different day.

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?
    Yes! I hope the 90s weather we've been having the past few weeks is gone for good now. I love wearing my sweaters/cardigans/boots/flats. I love that college football is back. I love that pumpkin flavored things are back. My birthday is soon too, and I love the holiday season.

    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? Ha, I doubt it'll happen (whomp whomp Debbie Downer), but if it did I would tell my mom on her birthday (October 8th). If it happened later, yeah I'd probably wait until Thanksgiving or Christmas. But I'm hoping to go to the Coors Brewery for our mini-vacation in 3 weeks, so it can wait.
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  • How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 10mos/10cycles
    Where are you in your cycle? cd 13/ 3po(according to FF which I am suspicious of right now)
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? I did some OPKs this week but they were neg. I only did them once a day in the morning, and FF had me O early again this month.  After the confusion last month, I think I might get a new thermometer because something is off.
    Any goods or bad this week? So many people have announced they were pg on facebook this week (like 4-5, with 2 today)  I had a break down this morning.  I also got a baby shower invite in the mail this morning which I was not expecting.  Major emotions right now.
    Thoughts, questions, concerns? I just want to get KU!!!!

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall? yes!  I am so ready for it to be below 100 degrees!  I love football and usually leaves changing, although we don't get the second one here in Texas.  I'm just tired of sweating all day every day.
    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? We only see out family at Christmas, so we have the idea of sending them either a onsie or a pacifier with a note saying that we will probably forget to bring one so they can hold onto it.  From baby W  I'm not sure what we will do it we tell them at Christmas.  My sister will know ahead of time if it happens because we are going to Hawaii with them next month, so I might have to go ahead and tell my parents. 

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    It really is a baby boom, not just here but in my real life too!!! maybe that's just being 28?

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 2
    Where are you in your cycle? CD24 /8DPO
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? Saturday morning when DH gets home from business trip
    Any goods or bad this week? not really
    Thoughts, questions, concerns?

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?

    i get really excited about all season changes, i got out all my fall decor, autumn leave scented candle, halloween oreos, i even found pumpkin pie pop tarts ( i havent had a pop tart in YEARS , but thougth i would try)


    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal?

    probably not, I like holidays to just be holidays. but we DO want to do some thing fun, like a balloon popping out of a box type deal.

     

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  • How many months/cycle have you been TTC? Officially 2


    Where are you in your cycle? cycle day 3


    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? Just waiting for OPK and new thermometer to arrive tomorrow


    Any goods or bad this week? Does this have to be PR? If not, Goods, waiting on preapproval numbers to start house shopping! Bads, still waiting to sell our current home.


    Thoughts, questions, concerns? Im worried Im going to screw up this OPK thing.

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Yes, FOOTBALL!!

    Favorite things about fall? Hoodies and jeans and Halloween


    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal?

    I want to give my parents onsies that say "Newest CBM Boat Club Member Arriving Est" then whatever the date is. My inlaws will get ones that say "Newest Philly Phan Arriving Est" then the due date.

  • How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 6 months/ 3rd cycle
    Where are you in your cycle? CD13
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? OPK's
    Any goods or bad this week?Just using OPK's and hoping that I actually O this time around.
    Thoughts, questions, concerns? I'm a little sad that this is going to be our first and last Clomid cycle for a while. So it's going to be back to anovulatory and 90+ day cycles. It makes me bummed, but oh well.  I'm not very positive about this cycle in general, but you never know.

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall? Fall is my favorite season. So I'm very excited about it. My favorite things are the smells of harvest, helping on the farm after work, and anything pumpkin.

    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? If we got one this cycle or next, we would probably give my parents a gift some night at dinner that has a onsie that says "future farmer" on it. 

    Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? We would, but I'm not sure how.  H would like to give his dad a t-shirt or mug that says "worlds best grandpa" on it, and have him open that at Christmas.
    H also wants to tell his brother in a fun way.  He always takes care of our dog when we go away on weekends, and they're best buds. So we want to photoshop a picture of him and Sadie together, with a caption coming out of Sadie's mouth that says "can my baby brother/sister hang out with us?"  Or something along those lines.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

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  • ((group hug)) I'm sorry many of you are having a rough week (or weeks) ... :( Hopefully things start looking up for you all!

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC?  Month 2
    Where are you in your cycle? CD10 (I think)
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? Next week I'll start OPK's. I'm thinking around CD15
    Any goods or bad this week? Not re: TTC... just been worried about my Ninna, but it really sounds like the doctors are being very proactive and while it is spreading very rapidly, the cancer itself is only at stage 1. One day at a time. She should be starting Chemo within the next couple of weeks, so that's freaking me out a little. I'm trying to occupy myself with trying to find things for a care package for her.
    Thoughts, questions, concerns? Not at the moment.

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?
    Hell yes, and everything. Cooler weather, the colors, etc etc. F summer. It needs to go.
    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? I don't know.. didn't really think about it much. lol. I suck at CBH questions.
  • @Sewilson33 I would wait for him to get an SA until after you've hit the year mark (if you even need it). You've still got two months until then and you never know.
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  • ((big squishies to all)) And I expect them back! So happy for all the BFPs, but they're killin' me, too!

    @callitcompulsive, sending lots of get well soon juju your grandmother's way; stage 1 can have very promising outcomes!

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 14 months/12 cycles.

    Where are you in your cycle? CD12

    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? Probably not for about another week; I don't O before CD20 at the earliest.

    Any goods or bad this week? Frustrated to no end with DH and his utter laziness toward all grown-up responsibilities. If it doesn't involve fishing, video games, or screwing around on the computer, it doesn't get done (unless it's making dinner, which he does still manage to do).

    Thoughts, questions, concerns? So we're supposed to go to France next year in late August with my dad, stepmom, and little sister. If I'm not pregnant by the end of October, I need to seriously consider if we want to NNT/avoid sex during my FW. I'm fine with the idea of taking the trip with a newborn, but if I get pregnant in Nov-Jan, I'll be too far along in the pregnancy at trip time to be allowed to fly. WWYD? Just keep trying and be willing to give up the trip (I've never been to Europe and very much want to go), or put TTC on hold for a few months so you don't end up in your 3rd Tri come trip time?

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall? I'm not a huuuuuge fall fan, but I like it. I especially love seeing the leaves change color (but having a humongous oak tree in the backyard makes raking leaves an absolute nightmare for 3-4 solid months). I love cozy sweaters and boots, too, so getting to wear those again is exciting.

    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? Hmmm, good question! I really hadn't thought about the family reveal in any way except calling them up/going to see them and blurting it out. I honestly don't think I could keep it secret long enough to pull off a "reveal" to family, except maybe the extended fam we have farther away. They'd probably get a cute holiday photo card with the news worked into the greeting message.

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    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • Massive squeezies to those of you who need the pick me up.. 

     

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC?
    since May 2012.  ish. so.. 16 months? Can I stop counting now?

    Where are you in your cycle?
    CD21.  Probably post O, but not sure of the details, since I have been a bad temper this cycle. (and my chart is chock full of erratic temps) 

    Any testing plans OPK's HPT?
    Been using OPKs, but it's been a while since I've had anything close to a positive.  The last thing I want to do is give up too soon, though.

    Any goods or bad this week?
    Waiting on my new niece or nephew.  He/She should be here very soon.  Bad is the breakdown I had in front of my brother.  It's very difficult to be so happy for them, and so frustrated for us.

    Thoughts, questions, concerns?
     H has been talking about going to get his SA done. Due to my new job, and new insurance, I'm not quite ready to start my testing.  Is there any use in sending him now? 
    Also, we each have our own insurance.  I imagine that mine would cover any tests/etc on me, and his would cover his.  Anyone else have experience with that? 

    I don't even know where to start with this.

     QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?
    yes, and no.  Fall is awesome!  Winter is not.  But if we can get through the winter we're so close to new house time, it's crazy.  :)  Goal is to move in Apr/May.

    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal?
    I haven't really thought much.  I am very close with my mother, and I think we'd tell immediate family pretty quickly.  I don't know that we'd use the holidays, except that it would be an easy excuse to give a gift?

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    After 2 years of TTC, lots of tests, and a Hysteroscopy/Laparoscopy to remove several polyps,
    Clomid/IUI #1 3/14: cancelled due to surprise BFP 3/8/14.
    Beta 1 3/11: 398  Beta 2 3/13: 728  Beta 3 3/20: 11,482 
    Surprise BFP turns into Surprise Twins! 

    Zoey and Garrett born 10/24/14 at 36+3


     

  • How many months/cycle have you been TTC? starting my 2nd
    Where are you in your cycle? CD2
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? just started using my OPK yesterday
    Any goods or bad this week? Most of you already know my bad news for this week. On a happier note, my uncle and his wife just had their first little girl last night. 
    Thoughts, questions, concerns? not at the moment... same shit, different dress.

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Yes!  I just moved to the Berkshires so it should be beautiful. Also, my birthday is in October, so, yay! Still waiting for my first fall-flavored drink til it actually feels like fall. 

    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? No idea! Would probably try and wait til we're all together for Thanksgiving and say, "I'm pregnant. Can you pass the turnips?" (please tell me SOMEONE on this board gets that reference!)

    Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? I guess I already answered this.  I fail at these things.

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  • @LuckyAngel07 I would travel in a heartbeat, but I love going and exploring new places.
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  • @zamboni00  - DH and I have our own insurance too. His paid for his, mine for mine. HTH!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • zamboni00 said:

    Any goods or bad this week?
    Waiting on my new niece or nephew.  He/She should be here very soon.  Bad is the breakdown I had in front of my brother.  It's very difficult to be so happy for them, and so frustrated for us. 

    ((Hugs))

    Thoughts, questions, concerns?
     H has been talking about going to get his SA done. Due to my new job, and new insurance, I'm not quite ready to start my testing.  Is there any use in sending him now? 
    Also, we each have our own insurance.  I imagine that mine would cover any tests/etc on me, and his would cover his.  Anyone else have experience with that? 

    If you're each covered under separate insurance plans, then yes, anything he has done would be billed to his insurance and anything you have done would be billed to yours (since you can't submit a claim for yourself on someone else's insurance and vice versa).

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    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • @zamboni00 I know how you feel. My SIL is 7 months pregnant with her 3rd right now, and I while I can't wait to meet him or her and have a new baby to play with, I'm just sad. Also, while I'm new to 3T, I don't see the harm in him getting his testing out of the way.
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  • @LuckyAngel07 I would take the next few months to just have fun and forget about the science of trying. Just go with the flow for a couple months and if it happens, it happens and it was meant to be!

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  • I forgot to add this in my post!

    I am thinking about skipping charting this month and just forgetting about "trying" and just "doing." I have regular cycles and O around the 15/16th so I would know if I'm late. Just a thought I had. I'm sick of watching temps and reading into them.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
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    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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  • I forgot to add this in my post!

    I am thinking about skipping charting this month and just forgetting about "trying" and just "doing." I have regular cycles and O around the 15/16th so I would know if I'm late. Just a thought I had. I'm sick of watching temps and reading into them.
    I feel you on this. But I can't give up charting, or I'll never have a clue what my body is doing. Considering O can fluctuate by damn near a whole week, I'd be left wondering every single month. Plus I'm also trying to figure out how long my damn LP is. Even THAT hasn't stayed the same!
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    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • @PandPMeant2B
    Is there any reason why you are starting opk's so early? I would think it'd be a waste before at least cd 10-15.
  • ((hugs)) to everyone having a bad week!

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC? ending the 8th about to start the 9th month/Cycle 5!
    Where are you in your cycle? CD13
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? I dunno, maybe if I get any EWCM I'll pee on some cheapie OPKs.
    Any goods or bad this week? We picked up our wedding video! I can't wait to be able to sit down and watch it!
    Thoughts, questions, concerns?  I have been cramping on and off since last night. Don't know if that means anything like maybe I'll O for the first time ever? Opinions anyone?

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall? Summer is my FAVORITE season. I will miss it. But I love Fall too. Especially the food, pumpkin picking, Halloween, AND I'm going to Disney in November so this Fall will rock on that alone.
    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal? We would wait to tell anyone til first u/s I think. Our plan is to buy a "Big Brother" shirt for our dog, have our parents over for dinner, and wait.  The holidays would just be used to tell as many people as possible in person I think. Unless we thought of something awesome. I'm trying not to get my hopes too high. I'm afraid @seahorse01 has already given away all her babies.
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    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • @LuckyAngel07 I think the only time I would try NOT to get pregnant would be those months you calculated would put you in your third trimester AKA no flying.  I personally wouldn't mind being pregnant or with a newborn, since I want it so badly (as do you).

    How many months/cycle have you been TTC? 12months/ 12cycles
    Where are you in your cycle? CD 3
    Any testing plans OPK's HPT? OPK's, back to temping, and I'm kinda considering even getting one of those little microscopes for saliva. (since its possible DH may be back JUST in time for O, I don't want to get my hopes up if we missed it, and want to plan accordingly if he gets back in time)
    Any goods or bad this week?  I'm enjoying the limited alone time I'm having, but everyone is concerned that I'm lonely and won't leave me alone,lol. I love my friends :-)
    Thoughts, questions, concerns?  I have an appt next week to discuss starting Clomid.

    QOTW: Are you excited that fall is right around the corner? Favorite things about fall?
    I think I've exhausted my I Love Fall usage on this board. You know how I do.
    CBHQ: If you got your BFP this cycle or next cycle how would you tell you family? Would you try and involve the Holiday's in your big reveal?  Well, I would have at Thanksgiving, but since I truly think this month will be a bust, I'm not sure. I'd rather wait 3 months, but would like to tell in person. Who knows.

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                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • Thank you @luckyangel07. :)

    as far as your question goes.... that's a tough spot to be in. I think I'd NNT, but at the same time, it'd drive me nutso crazy to be on hold for a couple months. Which are you leaning towards? I hope you get PG by the end of October so you won't have to worry so much about it. ;)
  • @PandPMeant2B Is there any reason why you are starting opk's so early? I would think it'd be a waste before at least cd 10-15.
    Totally valid question and you're absolutely right.  I am using a fertility monitor and I had seen the terms used interchangeably on another board. I'll take my newb card back now.
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  • @luckyangel07 I would NNT for those 3 months. Still continue to temp since your cycles are all over, but don't worry about OPK's, CM, etc. Just let it be.

    @sweilson33 If you don't have any underlying conditions, then I would wait to have H do his SA until after the 1 year mark.

    @callitcompulsive Prayers for your Ninna. I hope the Dr's find the perfect combination to cure her.

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  • thanks, @brij2006

     I hope so too.
    :x
  • Thanks for weighing in ladies! I agree with what you've said about just letting things be for those few months without pushing TTC. I just know if I don't get to go to France next year, it's going to be a very long time before the opportunity presents itself again (especially with my stepmom's frequent flyer miles covering all our airfare!!).
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  • Sewilson33 – As you have been so regular, I’d wait to have DH get an S/A til the year. Unless your doctor thinks otherwise. Does DH have any risks that make it likely something is wrong and makes you want to have him go earlier, as in works with chemicals, rides bikes a lot, injury to the area at some point? Also, since you are regular… skip a month of charting if it will relieve some of the pressure! I would if I could.

    transponster – lots of luck on the 30th! But I hope you get a baby from @seahorse01 before that and don’t need the appointment!

    abt8113 – sorry you’re surrounded by so many BFPs. ((hugs))

    @brij2006 – I hope this Clomid cycle works for you and you don’t have to wait til the new year to do it again!

    callitcompulsive – I’m praying for your Ninna every day.

    @luckyangel07 – I’m frustrated with your husband too! I’d be withholding fun sex if mine waited this long!  Also, I’d prolly NNT for those months, a trip to France sounds too amazing to have to put off if it’s just stopping TTC for 3 months.

    DangerMuffin23 – good luck at your appointment next week!

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  • ((Hugs)) to those of you who need them. It has been a rough week around here. As PPs said I'm so happy for those who got their BFPs but sad for myself at the same time.

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