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LIES && PORN

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Re: LIES && PORN

  • I recommend that you find a marriage and family therapist who can help you work on being more honest and open with each other and being more accepting of each other.  Also I would encourage you to work with them, or possibly a sex therapist, on meeting both of your needs sexually and helping you to overcome your insecurities regarding sex.  Know that you are not alone in having problems like this and it is perfectly ok to go to someone to work on making things better and plenty of people go to marriage counseling, even when there isn't a big problem.  
    Also, I know for some women it is difficult to understand their partner's sex drive, particularily if yours is much lower.  Try to think about other ways that you can relieve some of his sexual urges is a way that you are more comfortable with.  For example: 
    • giving him oral or manual
    • having him masturbate to sexy pictures of you or to you in person
    • him using pictures instead of videos
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