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FFFC?

I know we had this posted on Thursday but in honor of Friday let's give it a go!

Happy Friday Everyone!

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TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
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  • I've spent the last hour writing and rewriting the FB status I'm going to put up on Oct 15- Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day.

    There is so much I want to say. I'm clearly overthinking this and it is over a week away.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • It stormed here last night at around 12:30, and I couldn't get back to sleep.  So I laid on the couch and watched Dispicable Me.  I stayed awake through the whole movie, and am now exhausted at work.  I just want to take a nap, and everyone keeps asking me why I'm tired. Yeah, don't want to confess it's because I watched a kids movie in the middle of the night.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • I'm proctoring our employee satisfaction surveys. I brought the testing laptop down with me so I could "keep up with emails," but I've been on fb and TN for he past 2.5 hours. Please.... you expect me to sit in this freezing conference room as people filter in and out in groups of 1-4 for 6 hours with NOTHING else to do? 
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  • @ILoveRedVino- that is not a FFC. It is a really difficult day for many, many people and I admire your strength and dedication for awareness. I know it will be a such a hard day and your words will help many not only get through it, but help those that may not understand. Thinking of you (hugs).
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • After getting DH's SA results (which it turns out are as sad as they initially made them sound; some sort of different parameter that lab uses or something), I'm obsessing more than ever over this 2ww and if there was a chance shit finally worked on its own before we were forced to go down the IF/RE path.
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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • I am procrastinating on the most ridiculous tasks that I have to do.
  • I'm have been turning down sex with DH because I'm afraid it's going to bring on AF.
  • I'm have been turning down sex with DH because I'm afraid it's going to bring on AF.

    Omg I feel like its irrational, but I sometimes do this too. There are times when I'm sooo sure I'm pg, have sex, and then almost immediately AF comes. In my head I know it's unlikely that one causes the other, but if can't help thinking it sometimes

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!

  • I'm have been turning down sex with DH because I'm afraid it's going to bring on AF.
    In all honesty when I was on BCP I would have sex a day or 2 before AF was due and it would cause spotting or full on bleeding. I was convinced it made AF come.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • After getting DH's SA results (which it turns out are as sad as they initially made them sound; some sort of different parameter that lab uses or something), I'm obsessing more than ever over this 2ww and if there was a chance shit finally worked on its own before we were forced to go down the IF/RE path.
    I'm so sorry that the SA news ended up being bad after all. I'm sure it was hard to go back and forth yesterday on what it meant. :(

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • Thanks @Apollo11235. Now I guess we just see out the end of this cycle and decide where to go from here.

    Also, it doesn't help that I just discovered some light but bright red spotting upon a trip to the bathroom. I'm 7 DPO. My heart refuses to slow down and I can't stop hoping (probably to the point of jinxing myself) that it's implantation bleeding and NOT a ridiculously long run-up to AF's arrival.
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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • Mrs.Skiz said:

    My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!

    That is ridiculous and I'm seriously worried about the safety of her baby. I'm sorry you had to interact with a person like this.


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  • Mrs.Skiz said:

    My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!


    She sounds like such a lovely person.  Abortion is not a form of BC lady!
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    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • Mrs.Skiz said:

    My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!


    She sounds like such a lovely person.  Abortion is not a form of BC lady!
    THIS! WHYYYYY the hell are people who act like that always the ones who can just get pregnant without even thinking about it?! And why the fuck isn't she on BC?! It'd be a lot cheaper than abortion after abortion! 
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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • @LuckyAngel07 - I hope this cycle is it for you. And if you have to pursue the IF/RE rout, I hope it's short and you can get answers and treatment quickly.

    @Mrs.Skiz - That is unreal... 
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    TTC September 2013 | BFP 11/21/13 | Chart | EDD 8/3/14 | It's a girl! 

    DD born at 42 weeks 1 day | 8/18/14 5:33am | 8lbs 4oz 20.25in of perfection!

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  • @Mrs.Skiz All I can say is I'm really glad your brother got out of that relationship... That woman is terrible!

    imageMags's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
     
    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

    ~~
    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • edited October 2013
    Mrs.Skiz said:

    My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!


    She sounds like such a lovely person.  Abortion is not a form of BC lady!
    THIS! WHYYYYY the hell are people who act like that always the ones who can just get pregnant without even thinking about it?! And why the fuck isn't she on BC?! It'd be a lot cheaper than abortion after abortion! 

    Bc she's using the babies and abortions as leverage. Using bcp would defeat the purpose

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • Mrs.Skiz said:

    My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!


    She sounds like such a lovely person.  Abortion is not a form of BC lady!
    THIS! WHYYYYY the hell are people who act like that always the ones who can just get pregnant without even thinking about it?! And why the fuck isn't she on BC?! It'd be a lot cheaper than abortion after abortion! 

    Bc she's using the babies and abortions as leverage. Using bcp would defeat the purpose
    Oh right. It all seems so rational now that you put it that way.
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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • Mrs.Skiz said:

    My brothers evil ex is pregnant. She does not deserve to have children. She cheated on my brother and got pregnant by a married man. She convinced my brother the baby was his (they never had unprotected sex per my brother) and made him pay for her abortion. She then left my brother for this married man, got pregnant by him a second time and had a second abortion when he wouldnt leave his wife.

    She then had a one night stand and, yup pregnant again. 3rd abortion. Now after a huge FB public fight with her current boyfriend, they get back together and last night announce she is pregnant again.

    This bitch has had 3 abortions because of her own stupidity. She also cut the head of my 4 year olds piggy bank and stole all his money and hid the piggy corpse in his closet hoping no one would find it. That is flat out evil. Not only does she steal from children she stole a check from my brothers friend, wrote it out to my brother and cashed it out of his bank account.

    No babies for her! Not fair!!


    She sounds like such a lovely person.  Abortion is not a form of BC lady!
    THIS! WHYYYYY the hell are people who act like that always the ones who can just get pregnant without even thinking about it?! And why the fuck isn't she on BC?! It'd be a lot cheaper than abortion after abortion! 

    Bc she's using the babies and abortions as leverage. Using bcp would defeat the purpose
    Oh right. It all seems so rational now that you put it that way.
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    It makes me so sad. And angry.

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • I signed up for a pole dancing class.

    Also, @amandaf6383 PIP win.

    We did this in Vegas at my bachelorette party. We actually had a lot of fun. Maybe take a shot before you start though, lol. GL!

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • I keep whipping my boobies out and asking Tom if the nipples look any darker. This is because my sister (with absolutely no medical experience whatsoever lol) told me that sometimes your nipples will darken before a test will turn.

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    My mom said this happened to her with each of her pregnancies. So, what's he been saying?
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • I keep whipping my boobies out and asking Tom if the nipples look any darker. This is because my sister (with absolutely no medical experience whatsoever lol) told me that sometimes your nipples will darken before a test will turn.


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    You now have me obsessing over the color of my nipples. Thanks!
  • DH thinks I cried a lot last night because of 3T stuff, but really it's because I was snuggling with my dog and started thinking about how I don't know what I'll do when it's her time to go. I started to cry, and then I started thinking, "What if we have to put her down and it doesn't just happen naturally?" And then I started sobbing. I was too embarrassed to tell DH that I was crying for this reason.

    My dog is nowhere near old age. (7, but her life expectancy is 13-15 years)
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

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