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Not a fun day

The doctor called today.  My fFN was positive from yesterday.  I went in for a steroid shot and will get another one tomorrow.  I am officially on bedrest.

I'm so scared.  I'm not ready to not be pregnant and I'm not ready for my boys to get here.  I feel so guilty.
Diagnosed with Severe DOR at 31 years old (AMH .14 FSH 9.8) 
D & L are here at 34 weeks 4 days by vaginal and breech delivery on 11/19/2013

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Re: Not a fun day

  • Sending you and your babies positive thoughts!!!
  • Sending positive thoughts your way.



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  • Don't feel guilty.

    Get yourself some good books, DVR some re-runs of your favorite shows, and keep those boys snuggled in.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry. I know this isn't what you wanted, but I really hope the rest will help keep those boys snuggled in there for a bit longer.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • No reason to feel guilty mama.
    You said yourself you've been taking it easy even before official bed rest. Take it one day at a time and rest up for those little boys!
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  • I'm sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for. I hope bed rest is all it takes to keep them snuggled in tight for the next few weeks.

    We are all here to keep you company!

    T&Ps that the boys stay put a while longer. Hang in there ((hugs))
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

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    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • Lots of T&P and positive vibes to you and your boys. I was really upset when I had to go on bed rest, but I was amazed at how much it helped in such a short amount of time. I tried to look at it as my last chance to be completely selfish and just loaf with TV, books and TN. 
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  • No reason to be guilty.  If your doctors would have told you to stay home and you hadn't... maybe then but that wasn't the case at all. They really didn't tell you much of anything!

    I'm so sorry you are on bed rest and I have everything crossed you can bake those boys a little (or a lot) longer!

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  • I will be thinking of you and your boys. I hope they keep snuggled in there a while longer! Big hugs!

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  • Don't feel guilty for one second. You were already being more cautious than your MFM advised.

    I hope bed rest keeps those boys right where they need to be for a while. I'm sorry you're going through this.
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  • Don't feel guilty!  It is not your fault!  You are doing absolutely everything you can to keep your little guys cooking longer.  If they come early, they will have the best care that can be given, I am sure.  Hang in there mama!  I'm thinking of you!
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  • What everyone else said!! I hope those boys stay put for a while but I also hope the steroids do their job. You're doing great mama!

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  • I'm so sorry! Don't feel guilty... there is nothing you could have done to make that test come back negative today. I hope that the bed rest keeps those boys in there a littlelonger. Just take it one day at a ttime. I will be thinking of you, your family and your little boys!
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  • Oh no! I'm so sorry you got that news today. But don't feel guilty!! You're already such a good mama for caring so much. Everything will be ok. Hugs!!
  • :) thinking of you and your boys! Rest up.
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  • Thinking of you! And ditto everyone else... please don't feel guilty. You have done everything you could do to get to this point and you will do everything you can do to keep those boys in for a few weeks longer. ((HUGS))
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    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • Aw, it's going to be ok! Enjoy the rest while you can (: We're all here for you

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  • Thinking of you and the boys!  Get some rest!
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  • Thinking of you and the boys!  Get some rest!
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  • Thinking of you!
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  • Ditto everyone else. Don't feel guilty. You followed everything that was advised plus some. Try to relax and hoping the boys stay put for a good while longer.

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  • I hope they snuggle up cozy in there. You're in my thoughts.
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  • There is no reason for you to feel guilty!  You've been doing whatever you can to keep those boys snuggled in.  Take this time to rest and watch some bad TV.  We're all here for you.

    Tons of prayers those boys stay put for many weeks to come!
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  • Don't feel guilty! You're doing all you can for your little guys. FX that they stay put for longer.
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  • Thank you everyone. Yesterday was hard but today I have hope. My doctor already told me this but there is a lot of stories that the FFN is really a better predictor if it is negative (ie 99% that you will not gib into labor in the next 2 weeks) and a positive puts you at a higher risk but I have heard known people who go 3, 5 even 10 more weeks.

    So I just finished getting my steroid shot and going a back home to bed.

    I come back to the doc on Monday for another us an appointment so hopefully my cervix can cooperate!

    @spin25 and @littlelady77 - I hope I am not freaking you out. Truth is I have ah a great pregnancy up to now. And my close friend just had her 2 little, perfect girls yesterday and 37w5d with absolutely no complications! They are my future daughter in laws! Can you say double wedding!!
    Diagnosed with Severe DOR at 31 years old (AMH .14 FSH 9.8) 
    D & L are here at 34 weeks 4 days by vaginal and breech delivery on 11/19/2013

  • edited October 2013

    I just wanted to offer you support.  I had preterm contractions, was 3cm dilated and a positive fFn at 33 weeks with my son, got the steroid shot and was put on bedrest.  I was told he could come any day.   I had contractions and continued to dilate until I went in to active labour at 40w1d.   

    I understand my circumstances were different because it was a singleton and I was further along, but I can relate to the fear and the frustration of the unknown.  Do your best to rest and take it one day at a time.  PM me if you ever need to talk :) 

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    DS born: February 21, 2012

    TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
  • @PinkinProvence--I often think about all of the things that could happen (like a lot of us probably do), but it's not b/c of anyone in particular. :)  No worries!

    I hope the women on the Multiples board with positive experiences were able to give you some encouragement (sounds like they did). Rest up!
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