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FRIDAY CONFESSIONS

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  • EliStar said:
    EliStar said:
    MrsJenE said:
    EliStar said:
    I remember seeing someone post recently that they got a package but it was sent back because they weren't home to receive it... Can we go through and make sure it wasn't that girl? 

    But why wouldn't she contact the person who hosted the exchange and say, "Hey!  Still haven't received my gift/my gift got sent back.  Can you let my elf know?"
    No idea. Just trying to put this together because how could someone be that much of an asshole? 
    Never mind, I just found that post. Nope, wasn't that person. 
    This is NOT ok. I love the exchange, and I hate that people don't participate because of situations like this. We've made it pretty clear that if you do this, you will be outed, so she's got to know it's coming, right?
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  • Menrandes said:
    A friend of mine was talking to me about how frustrated she is with cooking. She bakes, but can't handle other cooking. I do both, and cooking is easier because you can taste as you go and there's less science involved to get things right. I guess I don't understand her bring mystified by cooking. Keep it simple? How hard is it to do a stir fry? I mean I cook a lot, and do it well honestly. I know I sound like I'm bragging...but it's true. But I grew up on ramen and hamburger helper and was never allowed to help in the kitchen. I think if I can figure if out, then she can. I'm not sure what my confession is, other than I want to yell at her or something for always making pre made stuff and then complaining about being unhealthy. Less venting about your health, more doing! Swap out a meal or two a week for crying out loud... God I feel bitchy today.

    Unfortunately this is me.  I love baking but can't cook.  I try so hard but I think my lack of sense of smell inhibits me on some accounts.  I always yell at myself that I should know better.

     


    @sassypants527, that super sucks.  I'm irrationally paranoid it's me but I don't think it is.  My elf sent me a message saying that she sent it out last Friday but I haven't received it yet but we've been in contact - if it doesn't come today, she said she'd look up tracking.  I'm sure you're an awesome elf which makes me even MORE mad that nobody said anything.  This kind of stuff ruin exchanges.

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  • Menrandes said:
    A friend of mine was talking to me about how frustrated she is with cooking. She bakes, but can't handle other cooking. I do both, and cooking is easier because you can taste as you go and there's less science involved to get things right. I guess I don't understand her bring mystified by cooking. Keep it simple? How hard is it to do a stir fry? I mean I cook a lot, and do it well honestly. I know I sound like I'm bragging...but it's true. But I grew up on ramen and hamburger helper and was never allowed to help in the kitchen. I think if I can figure if out, then she can. I'm not sure what my confession is, other than I want to yell at her or something for always making pre made stuff and then complaining about being unhealthy. Less venting about your health, more doing! Swap out a meal or two a week for crying out loud... God I feel bitchy today.

    Unfortunately this is me.  I love baking but can't cook.  I try so hard but I think my lack of sense of smell inhibits me on some accounts.  I always yell at myself that I should know better.

     


    @sassypants527, that super sucks.  I'm irrationally paranoid it's me but I don't think it is.  My elf sent me a message saying that she sent it out last Friday but I haven't received it yet but we've been in contact - if it doesn't come today, she said she'd look up tracking.  I'm sure you're an awesome elf which makes me even MORE mad that nobody said anything.  This kind of stuff ruin exchanges.

    Nope, not you!  :) 
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  • MrsC7MrsC7 member
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    edited November 2013
    MrsJenE said:
    EliStar said:
    MrsJenE said:
    EliStar said:
    I remember seeing someone post recently that they got a package but it was sent back because they weren't home to receive it... Can we go through and make sure it wasn't that girl? 

    But why wouldn't she contact the person who hosted the exchange and say, "Hey!  Still haven't received my gift/my gift got sent back.  Can you let my elf know?"
    No idea. Just trying to put this together because how could someone be that much of an asshole? 

    She's prohibited from participating in any future exchanges.
    @sassypants527  Are you comfortable revealing who it is?
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  • My confession is a couple of weeks old but I couldn't post it at the time.

    Earlier this month DH and I were at the mall and ran into BIL buying an engagement ring (completely randomly!). My reaction was such that the salesman thought I was the girl BIL would be proposing to (think jumping, clapping, and squealing in the middle of the store).

    I was going to post that a couple of weeks ago but you never know who's lurking and if I were to have ruined that surprise I would never have forgiven myself, but he proposed last night (on soon-to-be SIL's favorite holiday!), so it's safe now! :D
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  • I have forgotten what my confession was because I am so upset at @sassypants527's confession.

    Feel free to out her, I was shafted by my elf nearly 4 years ago and I'm still pissed about it. I never outed her and she remained on the board posting like it was no big deal for months afterward. Everytime I saw her name, I'd get pissed off all over again.
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  • I tried to figure it out ('cause I'm a litte bored) but not everyone listed their nest name on elfster so no luck.
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  • @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.

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  • I just realized I didn't put on deodorant this am. Oops. Sorry, kids.
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  • I just realized I didn't put on deodorant this am. Oops. Sorry, kids.

    This is why I keep deodorant at my desk. :-) Just in case.

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  • brie&drew said:
    I just realized I didn't put on deodorant this am. Oops. Sorry, kids.

    This is why I keep deodorant at my desk. :-) Just in case.
    I have some! But I share my "office" with 44 teenagers...there's no time to get it on me!
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  • RevJen said:
    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.
    GeekyWife 
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  • RevJen said:

    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.

    GeekyWife 
    X_X

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  • HoycieHoycie member
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    edited November 2013

    RevJen said:
    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.
    GeekyWife 
    X_X

    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED

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  • Hoycie said:




    RevJen said:

    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.


    GeekyWife 
    X_X





    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED

    Did she? Not cool.


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  • HoycieHoycie member
    5000 Comments Sixth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited November 2013
    RevJen said:

    RevJen said:
    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.
    GeekyWife 
    X_X

    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED
    Did she? Not cool.

    Yup! In the previous exchange she got signed books too. I can understand it happening once because shit happens but twice? Rude!!!

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  • sassypants527sassypants527 member
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    edited November 2013
    Hoycie said:
    RevJen said:

    RevJen said:
    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.
    GeekyWife 
    X_X

    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED
    Did she? Not cool.

    Yup! In the previous exchange she got signed books too. I can understand it happening once because shit happens but twice? Rude!!!
    Really??  Geez.  I didn't know that.  I felt super bad because she had me last year and I was so excited to reciprocate.  Not so much anymore.
    :-<
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  • Hoycie said:
    RevJen said:

    RevJen said:
    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.
    GeekyWife 
    X_X

    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED
    Did she? Not cool.

    Yup! In the previous exchange she got signed books too. I can understand it happening once because shit happens but twice? Rude!!!
    Really??  Geez.  I didn't know that.  I felt super bad because she had me last year and I was so excited to reciprocate.  Not so much anymore.
    :-<

    I'm sorry :(

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  • edited November 2013


    Hoycie said:


    RevJen said:

    Hoycie said:




    RevJen said:

    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.


    GeekyWife 
    X_X





    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED
    Did she? Not cool.








    Yup! In the previous exchange she got signed books too. I can understand it happening once because shit happens but twice? Rude!!!


    Really??  Geez.  I didn't know that.  I felt super bad because she had me last year and I was so excited to reciprocate.  Not so much anymore.
    :-<
    Yup! I sent her the heir chronicles signed and a month or two later after I had reached out to her many times, got a quick 'thanks for the package' message through elfster. This is why I don't participate in exchanges anymore. I've also blocked her so I don't have to see her posts because it pissed me off so much.

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  • That's horrible. How hard is it to say thanks?

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  • I got really mad when I saw that she was planning a Christmas crafting exchange on the Craft board.
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  • WTF?

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  • I got really mad when I saw that she was planning a Christmas crafting exchange on the Craft board.
    That's me actually
    :(
    I'm kind of bummed about it now, because the craft ornament exchange is one of my favorite parts of the holidays. 
    And now I don't know how into I am if people that wont say thank you will be involved.
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  • I got really mad when I saw that she was planning a Christmas crafting exchange on the Craft board.

    Does anyone even still post over there? Chances are it'll be a bunch of lurkers who won't follow through anyway and leave the ones that do extremely upset.

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  • Menrandes said:
    I got really mad when I saw that she was planning a Christmas crafting exchange on the Craft board.
    That's me actually
    :(
    I'm kind of bummed about it now, because the craft ornament exchange is one of my favorite parts of the holidays. 
    And now I don't know how into I am if people that wont say thank you will be involved.

    Don't let one rude person kill your fun.

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  • Hoycie said:

    RevJen said:
    @sassypants527  I also think you should out her.  I thought about it and she's just being rude.  Call her out if you want.  If you don't want to, let me do it.
    GeekyWife 
    X_X

    This person has done this before in a previous exchange. #SHUNNED


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  • Menrandes said:
    I got really mad when I saw that she was planning a Christmas crafting exchange on the Craft board.
    That's me actually
    :(
    I'm kind of bummed about it now, because the craft ornament exchange is one of my favorite parts of the holidays. 
    And now I don't know how into I am if people that wont say thank you will be involved.
    I had initially thought about PMing you, @Menrandes, to let you know about what happened to me when I saw that you were planning and she was contributing so heavily to the discussion, but I was trying not to be a bitch about it (and her) at the time.  I guess it's all out there now.  Have you drawn names already?
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  • Menrandes said:
    I got really mad when I saw that she was planning a Christmas crafting exchange on the Craft board.
    That's me actually
    :(
    I'm kind of bummed about it now, because the craft ornament exchange is one of my favorite parts of the holidays. 
    And now I don't know how into I am if people that wont say thank you will be involved.
    I had initially thought about PMing you, @Menrandes, to let you know about what happened to me when I saw that you were planning and she was contributing so heavily to the discussion, but I was trying not to be a bitch about it (and her) at the time.  I guess it's all out there now.  Have you drawn names already?
    Not yet.  The drawing is on Monday.
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