Wanna hear my most recent complaint?

nfp147 · November 2013

I'm so sorry ILRV. Like other people said, I'm sure your parents don't mean to hurt you and I'm sure they would want to know how you feel. I'm so angry at the universe for everything you've been through. I'm so hopeful for you and your H.

islandmonkey8 · November 2013

I'm so sorry. You are an amazing woman and this is too much for anyone to handle. I agree with other posters, talking to your parents might help.

spongebobsquarepanties · November 2013

Woah. My heart hurts just reading this.

If my parents joined a program like that, I would be devastated. Do they not have any family out there? Are they lonely? I know it's no excuse, but I could see how if they did feel lonely or were the type to like helping others by building connections, that it would appeal to them. Nevertheless, I am surprised and hurt for you that it didn't occur to them how much pain they would cause you in doing so.

I am so sorry that they told you this. I am so sorry that this crap just keeps happening to you.:( You are allowed to cry and it doesn't make you bitter or bad to be hurt by this. Sending you a million imaginary nest bottles of red wine and boxes of dark chocolate.

RockABye · November 2013

I'm so sorry, girl.. I know that is so hard. That's a really neat program, but I completely understand how hurtful it is to you. I would find a way to mention it to them gracefully. They need to know how you're feeling. (((hugs)))

amccul20 · November 2013

Wow, that is just terrible. I mean how can they not see how something like this would effect you? I'm so sorry that on top of dealing with IF you now how to deal with your parents crappy actions.

I do agree with the other girls though, say something to them, I'm sure they would be sad if they knew how much it bothers you. And maybe they could then at least limit their conversations about this other family with you.

PandPMeant2B · November 2013

PPs said it better than I ever could. So sorry you're dealing with this. (((hugs)))

cloudymeatballs · November 2013

I am so sorry you are dealing with this. This would be very difficult. It made me sad just reading this. Hang in there. xoxoxo

Flamingo86 · November 2013

I'm so sorry. That would make me very sad as well.

ILoveRedVino · November 2013

So... I feel like I owe an update, though there isn't much of one.

They haven't mentioned it again, and I'm not going to be the one to bring it up. They're really good people and their intentions in this are pure. I don't want them to stop doing it... I just don't want to hear all the details.

As long as they don't bring it up, there is nothing to say. If/when they do, I'll let them know that I'm happy for them but it hurts to hear. I just figure there is no reason to be the one to start the conversation. Maybe it's a non-issue.

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