October 2012 Weddings
mrshall1027
member
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Update on H and I
H and I are doing sooooo much better! We had a "come to Jesus" meeting and laid everything out to each other. I explained how much it was hurting me when he would talk down to me and that I was not going to allow it anymore. He promised to work on his communication and make an effort to not use offensive language. I can see that he's really working on his communication and I've been trying harder to not shut down and just hold in all my thoughts and feelings. I think this whole situation has made us stronger and actually grow closer together.
We haven't gone to see a counselor yet, mainly because our schedule is pretty crazy right now, but also because we want to try to work this out together before involving a third party. I'm just glad that H has been so open to receiving my concerns and wants to put the effort towards becoming better people together. I knew there was a reason I feel in love with him in the first place!
Side update: It looks like we are going to start TTC again soon! I've been dealing with some medical issues, but we have a good plan in place now. I'll be taking my first dose of Clomid soon and we'll see how it goes. I have a TMJ surgery scheduled for next month but I don't know if I actually want to go through with it yet. For some reason, I am a lot more nervous about this surgery than I was about my breast reduction. Plus, having the surgery will push back TTC more and we've been ready since the beginning of the year, so needing to wait more would suck.
Re: Update on H and I
I'm so glad you guys are doing better and working it out!
Good luck on TTC!!! Can't wait to see you update on our Tuesday posts, but I would get the surgery over with and that way you don't have to worry about it and baby. I know you mentioned you're deductible has be reached, so it's a good time. How much would it push back your TTC plans?
I'm happy you updated us and really happy that things are going great! Sounds like you are doing a great job of working this out without a counselor.
I hope you don't have to have surgery again or for a while. Recovering is no fun at all!