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Question 1: I feel like I've got pnd/mucus in the back of my throat. I'm worried I'm coming down with a cold (damnit!). Can I take anything right away, or am I stuck without relief for the next 9 months?
Question 2: Our company's open enrollment starts today. I want to finally start putting money into the health savings account they offer, and I'm just curious approx. how much I might expect to spend next year on doc's appts, hospital stay (I already know my insurance says this is $150/day), etc that I can submit for reimbursement from my account. I know it's hard to ballpark this with insurance variability, but any input would be appreciated!


TTC since July 2012
BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!

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Re: Couple of Questions
~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP! Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64 Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
I am not much help with the insurance part of it all but as far as the cold goes...When I got my BFP, I had bronchitis. They put me on an antibiotic that was safe for pregnancy but as far as relief before that kicked in, I basically used halls cough drops to help with the cough and sore throat.
Not sure if those are symptoms you are having but if so...they helped me. Also, Maybe start increasing your vitamin C intake? I would think that would be safe for pregnancy.
Good Luck! I really hope it doesn't turn into something completely miserable for you.
After awhile, you just want to be with the one who makes you laugh. - Mr. Big
TTC #1 since July 2012
Cycles 1-9: BFN
Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
EDD: June 25, 2014
Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014
My TTC Journey Blog
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
My Dr said Tylenol Cold & Sinus was okay and so was Sudafed. But each Dr is different.
As far as the insurance information. Take a look at your plan. You will have one amount for the deductible (if you're on your plan by yourself then look at the individual one), and one amount for Maximum out of pocket expense. Add both of those up, and that's likely the maximum you will have to pay. My insurance also has me paying $30 co-pays for each Dr's visit on top of my $1,000 deductible and $3,500 max OOP expense. So we had budgeted for $5k in medical expenses.
Each company is different, but mine said I had my individual deductible and OOP amount for a normal birth and stay right after the birth. If baby or I needed to stay longer than 48hrs after vaginal or 36hrs after c-section, or baby was put in the NICU at all, then I would bump up to my family deductible of $2k and my max OOP of $5k. So we knew there was a possibility of paying $7k instead of $5k.
You can also call into your insurance and let them know you are pregnant and ask them to explain your coverages. I did this at around 5 weeks, and they then let me know that a breast pump was 50% covered under my plan and so were some other things I didn't know about. So it doesn't hurt to call.
If you have any questions, feel free to PM me.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP! Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64 Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP! Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64 Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
You should be safe with the $3k put aside for your OOP maximum (it will likely meet that).
I would definitely check to make sure the hospital is in your network. Just to be safe.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
That's correct. So you should be safe.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
@LuckyAngel07 I would call your Dr's office about cold meds. let them tell you what they're Ok with you taking. they may also have a list on their website so maybe check there.
the reason I say see what your dr says is because a lot of the girls above mentioned taking sudafed and I was told specifically no sudafed, but I don't know the reasoning.
The Rowdy Roberts
I did check there, thanks! They didn't have Zicam specifically, though, which is what I need to know about, since I don't actually have a full-blown cold yet, just the inklings of one. I wanted to try the Zicam to head it off before it gets nasty.
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
Wow. I'm being a doof this morning. I completely forgot that the HSA was pretax. I would definitely get it set up and put the maximum in there, then just put aside the remaining amount post tax.
Baby is definitely more fun than a Carribean vacation BTW. :-)
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
They do have a similar program, the flexible spending account (FSA), though that allows you to put aside $5000 pretax for daycare that we use because it works out better than the child care credit you can claim on taxes for us. Don't recall if you'll be needing child care but just thought I'd throw that out there.
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B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
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B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
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You should check on your HSA. The benefit of an HSA (Health Savings Account) over FSA (flex spending account) is that you keep whatever you don't use. It continues to roll over, and you can invest money into mutual funds to help it grow larger for when you need it. FSA is a use it or lose it account.
Michelle & Michael
Married - August '10
TTC - Since September 2011
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@bobcee, I haven't even looked into dependent care stuff yet. I'm not nearly far enough along to ask HR the details about that one, and no one else in the session today had dependents to necessitate talking about it. We're also probably going to talk to my dad and see if he wouldn't mind helping take care of baby when I go back to work. He's SAH. So hopefully we won't even need to worry about it.
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6