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  • I secretly think my friend may have settled when she married her H. I am also disappointed in the way she's been acting since they got married. To each their own I suppose.

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    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Gah! I totally had one yesterday and now I can't remember what it was about at all!!
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  • H's best friend is coming to visit this weekend, and I almost wish his wife was coming with so I could slap her.  She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.

    I also wrote Mr & Mr's M on their wedding card just to spite her because she told her H 2 days before the wedding that she didn't want to take his last name (he wasn't very happy about this).  So I was sure to say, "congratulations Mrs. M" after the ceremony.

    Yes, I know and understand these are b*itch moves on my part.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
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  • brij2006 said:

    She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.


    WHAT?!?!  Who says that?!  I think you're entitled to be a b*&^$ to her the rest of your life.
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  • @brij2006 your H's friend's wife deserves to be slapped in the face. Wtf is wrong with her? Who the heck says something like that to someone?? What biatch!!! xo

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  • @brij2006 your H's friend's wife deserves to be slapped in the face. Wtf is wrong with her? Who the heck says something like that to someone?? What biatch!!! xo

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  • @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
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    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • brij2006 said:
    @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.

    WTF is wrong with her?!  I want to slap her myself!
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  • @brij2006 - I would probably have driven to her house by now and slap the sh*t out of her.

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  • brij2006 said:
    @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.


    She sounds like such a miserable person. I want to slap her just reading this. I'm sorry you have to put up with her, but I'm glad she won't be around this weekend!

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  • DH's best man, S, and I don't get along very well, more so since he started dating his now-fiancee, M. DH has been talking lately about wanting out of their wedding because he doesn't like S when he's with M, and S never wants to hang out except with M.

    Anyway, DH and S are trying to patch things up now by doing something with just the two of them. I am secretly very disappointed.

    On another note, I feel like my FFCs are always confusing stories. Sorry about that.

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  • brij2006 said:
    @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.

    WTF is wrong with her?!  I want to slap her myself!

    There are so many flameful things I want to say to her. 

    The hardest part is that H's BF is an amazing friend! The day we found out we lost the baby, he drove down (2 hrs away) to surprise us at our house and to just be there with us.  He's the only person H has cried with about our loss, and he is that type of friend that even calls me just to chat.  So I never want to say things to his wife that would hurt him.  It's a very difficult fine line we have to walk, and we know she is very controlling and would be the type to tell him that he can't come see us anymore.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • BreMae said:
    brij2006 said:
    @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.


    She sounds like such a miserable person. I want to slap her just reading this. I'm sorry you have to put up with her, but I'm glad she won't be around this weekend!

    Really though! I want to go slap her in the face!!! This girl's got probs!

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  • BreMae said:
    brij2006 said:
    @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.


    She sounds like such a miserable person. I want to slap her just reading this. I'm sorry you have to put up with her, but I'm glad she won't be around this weekend!

    Really though! I want to go slap her in the face!!! This girl's got probs!

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  • brij2006 said:

    H's best friend is coming to visit this weekend, and I almost wish his wife was coming with so I could slap her.  She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.

    Wat.

    What a bitch. I'm pretty sure I would be mailing her poop. http://www.poopsenders.com/order/
    OMG I never even knew this existed!
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  • @brij2006 why does this crazy biatch hate your H so much?  I can't imagine having so much hate for someone that I would say they deserved a m/c
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  • brij2006 said:

    H's best friend is coming to visit this weekend, and I almost wish his wife was coming with so I could slap her.  She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.

    Wat.

    What a bitch. I'm pretty sure I would be mailing her poop. http://www.poopsenders.com/order/

    Oh my gosh, that's real poop! 
    I would send it to her, but she would probably make her H take care of it.  Then I would just feel bad that he had to deal with poop.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
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  • brij2006 said:
    brij2006 said:

    H's best friend is coming to visit this weekend, and I almost wish his wife was coming with so I could slap her.  She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.

    Wat.

    What a bitch. I'm pretty sure I would be mailing her poop. http://www.poopsenders.com/order/

    Oh my gosh, that's real poop! 
    I would send it to her, but she would probably make her H take care of it.  Then I would just feel bad that he had to deal with poop.
    That's too bad. But at least if it's addressed to her, she'd probably open it and get the full experience... ;)

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  • brij2006 said:
    brij2006 said:
    @brij2006 I'm pretty sure the huge bitch here is not you. I can't believe anyone would ever say someone deserved a m/c.

    This is also the same girl that told H's BF that H couldn't be the best man because she didn't like him.  Then at the wedding the groom wanted him standing 2nd in line up there with him, and she yelled at my H at the rehearsal to get to the back of the line of guys, and that if she had her choice he wouldn't even be there.

    She has caused so much pain and hurt for H that I can't even look at her straight in the face. I had to put on a fake smile and personality at their wedding 3 weeks ago, and act like I was happy about it.  While H was up there trying not to break down from her comment about our m/c (that had just happened that week), and her remarks about him standing in their wedding.

    WTF is wrong with her?!  I want to slap her myself!

    There are so many flameful things I want to say to her. 

    The hardest part is that H's BF is an amazing friend! The day we found out we lost the baby, he drove down (2 hrs away) to surprise us at our house and to just be there with us.  He's the only person H has cried with about our loss, and he is that type of friend that even calls me just to chat.  So I never want to say things to his wife that would hurt him.  It's a very difficult fine line we have to walk, and we know she is very controlling and would be the type to tell him that he can't come see us anymore.

    I'm guessing she's very insecure/jealous of her H's and your H's relationship.  I'm sorry you have to deal with this.  
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  • @zamboni00 I'm keeping pace with you.  There's chocolate covered raisins in my desk drawer, and I've done a good number on them.  We won't even talk about the Lindt truffles that are sitting on my side of the couch either.

    @kjlr2012 She's a special education teacher, and has her doctorates in Special Education.  She also has a brother who is special needs.  We were up there last year on New Years (when he proposed to her), and H said "that's retarded."  Then looked at her and said sorry, that's not what he meant by it and he hoped it didn't hurt her feelings and it wasn't directed toward anyone or anything.  It was just a figure of speech.  She told him that it is a word that shouldn't even be in his vocabulary, and she's hated him ever since.  

    I'm not saying my H is perfect by any means, but he realized what he said may have offended her so he apologized.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
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  • @brij2006, I am in SHOCK over everything you're just written about her. I don't care what kind of person she is otherwise, all her actions described make her the most loathsome person in my book. Saying those things and acting that way is just despicable! She seriously deserves anything you could think up for her.

    It's unbelievable that someone as obviously caring and supportive as YH's BF would be associated with someone like her, let alone marry her. I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with her hateful behavior. I wish D's BF would grow a pair and put her in her place re: you two.
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  • That's a pretty dumb reason to hate someone so much.  Oh wait, can I say dumb?  Sorry you have to deal with her crap!
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  • @nfp147 I never thought of that, and that honestly makes a lot of sense.  She liked my H when they first got together.  Then as time went on she was completely against him and wanted nothing to do with us.  But in the first year of their relationship we would see them about once a month and even went on vacations with them.  Then it took a complete 180 turn and we received a text message from H's BF on what we can and can't say in front of her on New Years last year (the day he proposed).

    I also know that she doesn't approve of the friendship her H and I have.  We went skydiving together, have been on multiple vacations with him, I helped design her engagement ring, helped him plan their first date from start to finish, vented to him when H and I had a rough patch in our relationship, and he saw me off at the airport when I left for London for 6 weeks.  He's more than just H's BF, he's been a part of our lives for a long time, and him and H lived together for 3 years. He's pretty much a brother to me, and I don't think she likes that.

    So what you said makes complete sense.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • brij2006 said:

    H's best friend is coming to visit this weekend, and I almost wish his wife was coming with so I could slap her.  She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.

    Wat.

    What a bitch. I'm pretty sure I would be mailing her poop. http://www.poopsenders.com/order/

    Ha ha she called the shit POOP!!!! LOL Oh and I never knew this existed... I need to keep this bookmarked! ;)

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