@brij2006, I ditto everyone else. Who is this bitch? I want to come punch her for you. Then it won't get back to you and your husband because she'll just be like "some internet stranger just knocked me out!" - And I'll be loooooong gone!
@brij2006, I ditto everyone else. Who is this bitch? I want to come punch her for you. Then it won't get back to you and your husband because she'll just be like "some internet stranger just knocked me out!" - And I'll be loooooong gone!
I feel like this would look like What Happens In Vegas...
"You Know Why."
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles) Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13 1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. Chemical Pregnancy 03/14 Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15 Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
@brij2006 this women's actions and words are incredibly awful for someone who requires empathy to perform her chosen profession. To say something like that to anyone is disturbing, and especially to her H's BF. You're DH made a mistake and apologized immediately, but I suspect nfp is accurate with her assessment and his NYE statement gave her an excuse to be vocal about her dislike.
So sorry you have to deal with her. And so sorry for your DHs best friend for marrying someone so spiteful.
First date July 31, 1999 Married January 28, 2009 TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012 TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
I still agree with what I said, if anyone read it, but I decided it was mean-spirited and wouldn't contribute any positive things.
I am sorry I missed this. Ha.
"I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you. I know you're bitter. I get it. But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
While I don't think that she has any right to treat your H the way she is, I also would not be friends with your H after what he said/ did when they got engaged. She is right that word shouldn't be used like that and has probably been fighting people in defense of her brother for a very long time. I hate that people use that word at all. HATE.
I think she and your H should either work things out or not be involved in each others' lives.
My FFC is I am irrationally upset with Alan for things that he has done, and it is my fault for allowing them to happen and not putting my foot down. It isn't like me at all.
H's best friend is coming to visit this weekend, and I almost wish his wife was coming with so I could slap her. She told H's BF that we deserved the m/c because H doesn't deserve to be a dad.
I also wrote Mr & Mr's M on their wedding card just to spite her because she told her H 2 days before the wedding that she didn't want to take his last name (he wasn't very happy about this). So I was sure to say, "congratulations Mrs. M" after the ceremony.
Yes, I know and understand these are b*itch moves on my part.
Sewilson beat me to it. If it wasn't an inconvenience I totally would have driven over there, rung the bell, and punched her square in the face and then walked away. I can't believe she has to be a part of your life. Tell her to grow the fuck up.
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@bruinsbabe33 H knows he's in the wrong with the words he said, and he apologized to her about it and felt horrible for saying it. He even since has apologized to her on multiple occasions and has asked her to forgive him. She just tells him that he's an asshole.
But now he isn't even sure if he wants to attempt to re-kindle the relationship. He feels like her making the comment that he deserved the m/c because he doesn't deserve to be a dad, was her way of trying to get back at him for making the comment he did. I feel that they both need to just talk to each other, apologize, and get it over with for her H's sake. Not that we need to start going on vacation with them again or be best buds, but he's the one who feels like the middle man in all of this and as though he's needing to choose between his BF and wife. In the meantime she's continuing to say hurtful things.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles) Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13 1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. Chemical Pregnancy 03/14 Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15 Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
My confession seems small now... I forgot to take my PNV yesterday until dinner. So I took it with wine.
@brij2006 Sorry that she sucks. I can't say anything that hasn't been said already but hope you guys figure out how you can effectively deal with her or cut her out in the future.
So I guess my FFC is that I judge the hell out of someone who just posted their BFP and has posted twice in one day that they are drinking in early first trimester. I don't mind people who drink in moderation after 2nd trimester, although it's not for me. But, correct me if I'm wrong, doesn't the babies liver develope in 1st tri?
So I guess my FFC is that I judge the hell out of someone who just posted their BFP and has posted twice in one day that they are drinking in early first trimester. I don't mind people who drink in moderation after 2nd trimester, although it's not for me. But, correct me if I'm wrong, doesn't the babies liver develope in 1st tri?
I'm not sure to be honest, but I judge people for drinking at any point during pregnancy. Yup. I said it. I'm a bitch, but with all of the information out there about the risks of drinking while pregnant and you do it anyway I think you are being selfish.
So I guess my FFC is that I judge the hell out of someone who just posted their BFP and has posted twice in one day that they are drinking in early first trimester. I don't mind people who drink in moderation after 2nd trimester, although it's not for me. But, correct me if I'm wrong, doesn't the babies liver develope in 1st tri?
Um, where was this? I didn't miss it here, did I?
I don't judge a glass of wine in late pregnancy (though I wouldn't do it) but I definitely judge it in early pregnancy and even in the second tri.
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@bruinsbabe33 H knows he's in the wrong with the words he said, and he apologized to her about it and felt horrible for saying it. He even since has apologized to her on multiple occasions and has asked her to forgive him. She just tells him that he's an asshole.
But now he isn't even sure if he wants to attempt to re-kindle the relationship. He feels like her making the comment that he deserved the m/c because he doesn't deserve to be a dad, was her way of trying to get back at him for making the comment he did. I feel that they both need to just talk to each other, apologize, and get it over with for her H's sake. Not that we need to start going on vacation with them again or be best buds, but he's the one who feels like the middle man in all of this and as though he's needing to choose between his BF and wife. In the meantime she's continuing to say hurtful things.
Your friend's wife just sounds like an evil vindictive c-u-next-tuesday. I'd be seriously pissed off by her comment about your loss, and even if she said it as a means to 'get back' at your H for his comment, it was cruel and uncalled for. Your H's comment that offended her was an unintentional error which he apologized immediately for. Something tells me that she would not even apologize for her comment though, so she really deserves to get a fist in her face. Or a flaming bag of shit thrown at her door. I'm so angry for you and your H after reading your story.
So my FFC - I wanted to throat punch the wife of one of my H's friends the other day for her intentional swipe at me over a Facebook argument, of all things. I normally don't let fb arguments get to me, but she knows that we are having issues TTC, and decided to throw that shit in my face because she didn't agree with something I said in one of her threads. I didn't even attack her parenting skills and the thread wasn't even anything about raising kids or anything like this - it was over some political thing she was ranting about that I didn't agree with (along with others who also didn't agree). Yet she decided to insult me and basically thinks that because she has kids and I don't, that somehow makes her superior or smarter. I was so upset and angry at what she said that I spent most of the day crying at my desk. Really, this is exactly why I only have a few select people outside of this forum that know about our issues....you never know when someone will decide to rub shit in your face when they want to 'win' some superficial facebook argument.
Eep! Sorry for any confusion. I am definitely not KU yet. I did post about drinking this week and we are TTC this month but I have not even O'd yet. CD 12 here.
Re: FFFC
"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussI feel like this would look like What Happens In Vegas...
"You Know Why."
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
@brij2006 this women's actions and words are incredibly awful for someone who requires empathy to perform her chosen profession. To say something like that to anyone is disturbing, and especially to her H's BF. You're DH made a mistake and apologized immediately, but I suspect nfp is accurate with her assessment and his NYE statement gave her an excuse to be vocal about her dislike.
So sorry you have to deal with her. And so sorry for your DHs best friend for marrying someone so spiteful.
TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012
TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
"I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you. I know you're bitter. I get it. But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussI think she and your H should either work things out or not be involved in each others' lives.
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
Sewilson beat me to it. If it wasn't an inconvenience I totally would have driven over there, rung the bell, and punched her square in the face and then walked away. I can't believe she has to be a part of your life. Tell her to grow the fuck up.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15
My confession seems small now... I forgot to take my PNV yesterday until dinner. So I took it with wine.
@brij2006 Sorry that she sucks. I can't say anything that hasn't been said already but hope you guys figure out how you can effectively deal with her or cut her out in the future.
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I don't mind people who drink in moderation after 2nd trimester, although it's not for me. But, correct me if I'm wrong, doesn't the babies liver develope in 1st tri?
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TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
I don't judge a glass of wine in late pregnancy (though I wouldn't do it) but I definitely judge it in early pregnancy and even in the second tri.
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
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IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
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Holy hell! I feel shitty now! I totally mixed up SNs! I'm sorry @mrsvedo!!!
Eta- thanks for catching that @looneylife!
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Eta- thanks for catching that @looneylife!
LOL!! Glad I wasn't losing my mind and hadn't missed anything that obvious.
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6