Men - Does this happen to anyone else?

catsareniice1 · December 2013

It seems like no one has been crushing or asking me out/hitting on me in a long time. Now, it's happening all at once (the rock star guy I posted about), two other guys I am not interested in hit on me and this hot guy my friend likes (maybe still likes) hit on me.

Problem is I really like the hot guy she likes but I will not go there. My friendship with her is too important to me so I would not date him. I didn't even tell her he make a move.

I guess I am just here to vent. The one person I really like, I can't have!

hlvonb · December 2013

catsareniice1 said:

It seems like no one has been crushing or asking me out/hitting on me in a long time. Now, it's happening all at once (the rock star guy I posted about), two other guys I am not interested in hit on me and this hot guy my friend likes (maybe still likes) hit on me.
Problem is I really like the hot guy she likes but I will not go there. My friendship with her is too important to me so I would not date him. I didn't even tell her he make a move.
I guess I am just here to vent. The one person I really like, I can't have!

@catsareniice1

If you want to be with the guy she likes then talk to her about her. Be upfront and honest. If you two are really good friends, it will work out. I dated a guy my friend of 7 years was crushing on (hard). She was a bit jealous at first but we moved past it pretty quick. I dated him for 3 years too and she and I never had an issue or argument about it.