Help, I started spotting light brown yesterday, now this morning dark redd

Re: Help, I started spotting light brown yesterday, now this morning dark redd

• sgautschi member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry cloudy. ((Hugs))

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• poppies717 member

  

  January 2014

  Oh, cloudy. I'm so sorry. Please don't blame yourself. Sending you virtual hugs. Be kind to yourself. ((Hugs))

  TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
  

  After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.

  11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!

  
  

  Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.

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• Ayres12 member

  

  January 2014

  Oh no, I was dreading this update after you said the bleeding got worse. I am so so sorry. You did NOTHING wrong! 

  Waiting on my baby girl EDD 2/5/14 

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• LuckyAngel07 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry!!  =(( This is the hardest thing to go through.

  
  

  Please, though, do NOT beat yourself up. PLENTY of women drink before they find out they're pregnant and go on to have uneventful pregnancies and healthy babies. So many other women do everything "right" and yet miscarry very early on (or even later). This is NOT a reflection on your actions at all. You did nothing wrong. 

  
  

  It's a crazy mix of emotions for me being pregnant again and yet still feeling very sad sometimes about my loss in Nov. I am here if you want to vent/talk anything out. 

  
  
  

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  BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13

  BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
  B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6

  Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!

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• BreMae member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry cloudy

  

  

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• arj14 member

  

  January 2014

  I am so sorry
  

  
  
  08/13: Started TTC  - 07/14: PCOS dx
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• wiggyslilsis member

  

  January 2014

  I am so so sorry Cloudy
  
  Please know that drinking the weekend before probably had little to do with this. Don't beat yourself up.
  
  Again, I am so sorry for your loss Cloudy.

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• sparklingdiamond member

  

  January 2014

  I am so sorry :-(  Please don't blame yourself though.  The drinking is not what caused this to happen and you did nothing wrong!

   
  
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  Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
  

  Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
  Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
  

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• cloudymeatballs member

  

  January 2014

  Thanks girls.

     

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• cloudymeatballs member

  

  January 2014

  Thanks girls.

     

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• Uptowngirl2009 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. Please don't beat yourself up over this. As PPs have said, your drinking had nothing to do with this. ((Hugs))

  
  

  TTC #1 since July 2012

  Cycles 1-9: BFN
  Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
  EDD: June 25, 2014
  Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

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• PandPMeant2B member

  

  January 2014

  My heart breaks for you, cloudy.  I'm sure it feels easier to blame yourself so you have an explanation for this tragedy, but like PPs said, it's not your fault.  Please be kind to yourself and try to take it easy. I'm so sorry for your loss.

  
  

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• waterfall213 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. ((HUGS)) Please don't blame yourself.
  

  

  
  

  

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• skreedrake member

  

  January 2014

  I am so, so sorry, cloudy. But please don't blame yourself. It most likely was not caused by the drinking and nothing you could have done differently could have prevented it.

  
  

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  BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.

  BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.

  BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.

  BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
  BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• bobcee member

  

  January 2014

  So sorry to see this update. And I'll echo the other girls. This was in no way your fault.

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• greenbeanqueen member

  

  January 2014

  I'm sorry Cloudy.

  "Do the best you can, until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." 

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• ecinereb member

  

  January 2014

  *lurker popping in*
  Im so sorry cloudy. I just want to echo what others have said, that you did nothing wrong and this is not your fault. It's a very crappy thing so make sure you are taking care of yourself!

  
  
  

  TTC since August 2011
  Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN

  Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
  

  Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
  

  Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3

  Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

  
  

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• amccul20 mod

  

  January 2014

  I'm so so sorry to hear this.  and you did nothing wrong! you didn't know you were pregnant and you wern't sharing blood with the baby and so nothing you did could have caused harm!!

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• vitan member

  

  January 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss.
  
  I highly doubt your drinking had anything to do with it. I drank on Easter, the weekend before i found out I was pregnant with my son.

  
  
  BFP #1 - 11/16/10 CP 12/1/10 

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• saisongbird member

  

  January 2014

  This is so NOT your fault.  Please don't blame your drinking - it had nothing to do with it.  I know there are no words that will change your mind but please please please do NOT blame yourself.  I am so sorry for your loss.

  
  
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• smbenevides1989 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss cloudy. As other positions have mentioned, it is not your fault.

    
  

  

  

  

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• cloudymeatballs member

  

  January 2014

  Thanks girls. Hopefully I'll be back here soon with good news. Glad I had here to get it off of my chest. xoxo

     

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• sweetpotato123 member

  

  January 2014

  I am so sorry, cloudy. This is most certainly not your fault. Take care of yourself and I'm thinking about you.

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• DangerMuffin23 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry cloudy. Unfortunately miscarriages this early happen more often then we think. A lot of people who aren't testing don't even know they're having one and just think it's their period. There really isn't anything you could have done to cause this. Really.

  
  

  

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• bridget0117 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry cloudy. Don't blame yourself. Get some rest.

  

   

  

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• ljraff29 member

  

  January 2014

  So sorry. I don't have anything else to add, but what others already said is right on. Take care of yourself.   

  
  
  

  

  
  

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• AshleyMatt1215 member

  

  January 2014

  Im so sorry... ::hugs::

  

  
  

  
  

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• Nicklet1081 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm sooo sorry cloudy!!  Don't blame yourself.  You did nothing wrong.  

  

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• lb1117 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))

  Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

  
  

  TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 

  BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 

  Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
  

  Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
  Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz
  

  
  
  

  
  

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• JLyn821 member

  

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry, Cloudy!  I'm just repeating what everyone else said, but this isn't your fault!  You didn't do anything to cause this.  (((hugs)))
  

  
  

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