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FFFC

Spill the beans, ladies!
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TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
Nestie Besties with Nfp147 

Re: FFFC

  • When I received the e-mail yesterday from the dietitian about my 1,200 calorie diet.  The thought crossed my mind to gain weight back and hope it would give me a real cycle again.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
    www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com 
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  • I found out my sister decided to hold off on TTC #2 for a few more months. When she told me I was more relieved than anything else. I feel terrible that I feel this way but I can't help it.

    imageMags's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
     
    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • I found out my sister decided to hold off on TTC #2 for a few more months. When she told me I was more relieved than anything else. I feel terrible that I feel this way but I can't help it.
    I would not feel remotely bad about that. I don't even know what I would have done if my sister had gotten pg with #2 while I was still struggling, especially after the loss. It was definitely something I feared, so I really understand your relief!
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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • lfk2013lfk2013 member
    1000 Comments 500 Love Its Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper
    edited February 2014
    I was secretly happy last night when DH texted me that our dog was sad because I wasn't there and he was (I went home to take Jasper out and feed him before I went to a book club).  Also, because Jasper did a little dance when I got home and wanted to cuddle with me all night. 
    Anniversary
    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • When I woke up from the anesthesia yesterday, I was crying for DH and my mom. I feel bad that I haven't told them that, but I don't want to upset them that they weren't there.  
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I found out one of my friends is pregnant, she found out when I did. I was happy for her of course, but really really mad/upset about it.
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  • @Nightmare_of_beauty I'm so sorry hun!!!

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • @Sewilson33 Aw, thanks.
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • @nightmare_of_beauty I'm sorry *Hugs*

    My confession...
    I had chocolate Lucky Charms for breakfast :) DH makes fun of my kiddie cereals but they are so yummy!
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    Our Little Raspberry-Born 3/27/12
    We Said I Do 09/06/09
    We love our Frankie Dog (5yo pit) and our Paco Kitty Dx Endo 12/09 Lupron 3/10-9/10 BFP 08/11 Bday 3/27/12 Lap Surgery 2/26/13
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  • I think Canada deserves the gold in hockey.
    I am keeping track of these comments and your love of poutine for your honourary citizenship application.  Now, you just need to eat a Beavertail.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • I have a pleading due to the court by the end of the day, and I am really pushing the limits of procrastination.
    Married 2011.
    Baby Boy 2015.
  • I have majorly slacked on house work the last week. I'd much rather sit around watching trashy tv and feeling bad for myself than doing anything productive.

    I did manage to do some grocery shopping this morning.

  • I think I read too many smut novels because sometimes I find myself a little disappointed that we are kinkier.

    imageMags's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
     
    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

    ~~
    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • We'll try again @aimothy.....

    I like drunk sex 10x more than regular sex.  Regular sex is boring.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
    www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com 
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  • amccul20amccul20 mod
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    edited February 2014
    I found out my sister decided to hold off on TTC #2 for a few more months. When she told me I was more relieved than anything else. I feel terrible that I feel this way but I can't help it.
    my sister and SIL got pregnant and had 2 kids while I was still TTC 1. I hated the feelings that came when I found out. I should have been excited but instead I was heartbroken.  I don't think your feelings are unwarranted at all
  • nfp147 said:
    I think Canada deserves the gold in hockey.
    I am keeping track of these comments and your love of poutine for your honourary citizenship application.  Now, you just need to eat a Beavertail.

    I second this.
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    First date July 31, 1999    Married January 28, 2009 
    TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 
    DS born: February 21, 2012

    TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
  • Second FFFC is that I really enjoy watching lesbian porn. If it's just me by myself... There are no boys allowed.
  • Second FFFC is that I really enjoy watching lesbian porn. If it's just me by myself... There are no boys allowed.
    lesbian porn is the best... as long as it's not too fake. Who scissors, really?

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • amccul20 said:
    I found out my sister decided to hold off on TTC #2 for a few more months. When she told me I was more relieved than anything else. I feel terrible that I feel this way but I can't help it.
    my sister and SIL got pregnant and had 2 kids while I was still TTC 1. I hated the feelings that came when I found out. I should have been excited but instead I was heartbroken.  I don't think your feelings are unwarranted at all

    No shame there. My SIL got pregnant with and had her second while we have been seeking treatment. Ouch. My sister told me when she's planning on TTC#2, and just thinking about her getting pregnant before me takes my breath away. It will probably come close to ruining a relationship we've worked hard to repair, but I can't control how I feel (obviously I would never TELL her how I feel).
    So I guess my FFC is that I haven't been truly happy for anyone I know IRL who has gotten pregnant. I just can't even access any subconscious happiness. Guess I'm a jealous, bitter, bitchy infertile.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • amccul20 said:
    I found out my sister decided to hold off on TTC #2 for a few more months. When she told me I was more relieved than anything else. I feel terrible that I feel this way but I can't help it.
    my sister and SIL got pregnant and had 2 kids while I was still TTC 1. I hated the feelings that came when I found out. I should have been excited but instead I was heartbroken.  I don't think your feelings are unwarranted at all

    No shame there. My SIL got pregnant with and had her second while we have been seeking treatment. Ouch. My sister told me when she's planning on TTC#2, and just thinking about her getting pregnant before me takes my breath away. It will probably come close to ruining a relationship we've worked hard to repair, but I can't control how I feel (obviously I would never TELL her how I feel).
    So I guess my FFC is that I haven't been truly happy for anyone I know IRL who has gotten pregnant. I just can't even access any subconscious happiness. Guess I'm a jealous, bitter, bitchy infertile.

    I'm right there with ya @poppies717. I'm rarely, if ever, happy to hear someone is pregnant (with the exception of many of the ladies on this board, esp. the ones who have struggled). I don't even have the "happy for them, sad for me" sentiment. I'm just bitter and bitchy.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • I hope one of my friends moves away like she's always talking about. Ever since she told me she got KU after trying once, in fucking Hawaii, at lunch in public (not the sex lol) after she knew all about our SF/IF diagnosis I just can't deal with her. I know that makes me bitter (esp after being successful) but deep down I think I might hate her for it. Flame away.

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • I hope one of my friends moves away like she's always talking about. Ever since she told me she got KU after trying once, in fucking Hawaii, at lunch in public (not the sex lol) after she knew all about our SF/IF diagnosis I just can't deal with her. I know that makes me bitter (esp after being successful) but deep down I think I might hate her for it. Flame away.

    No flames here.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • When I woke up from the anesthesia yesterday, I was crying for DH and my mom. I feel bad that I haven't told them that, but I don't want to upset them that they weren't there.  

    So sad, NOB :( Hope you're feeling better today!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I received an email at work today from a co-worker who does a completely different job than me, pretty much telling me how to do my job, which she knows nothing about.  It took me a while to calm down and respond and when she replied back a second time in ALL CAPS, I actually said out loud on the open floor that I wanted to punch her in the face.  Many co-workers heard me.  I'm sorry I'm not sorry.
  • When I woke up from the anesthesia yesterday, I was crying for DH and my mom. I feel bad that I haven't told them that, but I don't want to upset them that they weren't there.  

    :(
    I'm sad for you that they didn't allow your DH to be there waiting for you to wake up. After both of my ERs and D&C, DH was sitting right next to me when I woke up. I probably would have cried too if he wasn't the first person I saw.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • When I woke up from the anesthesia yesterday, I was crying for DH and my mom. I feel bad that I haven't told them that, but I don't want to upset them that they weren't there.  

    :(
    I'm sad for you that they didn't allow your DH to be there waiting for you to wake up. After both of my ERs and D&C, DH was sitting right next to me when I woke up. I probably would have cried too if he wasn't the first person I saw.
    My DH was there waiting for me too. So sorry you had a rough time:(

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

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