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What happened to just "making out"??

cloudymeatballs12cloudymeatballs12
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Are any of you in the same boat? I love having sex with my H, don't get me wrong. But I feel that we can never just make out anymore. Its like, as soon as we start kissing he's already pushing me into the bedroom. I mean, I really enjoyed just making out when we like, first start dating. It was fun and was actually nice, knowing that it wasn't turning into sex for sure. How do you get your H to just make out sometimes? I have talked with him about it, kind of, but he says he is just turned on by me. Awesome, but I still want to just kiss sometimes and enjoy each other together with out the sex. I mean, is that possible?
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Re: What happened to just "making out"??

  • R.WilsonnyR.Wilsonny
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    This made me giggle lol
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  • shortycakeshortycake
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    Very possible. DH and I flirt/make out quite often.  It makes for a much anticipated evening later on. Cant imagine not having this fun play time in our marriage (10 years this October).
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    Well we flirt with each other. We are very loving and touchy feely, but ya know, just making out. Lol whered it all go?? Can we just make out minus the sex being expected!?
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  • TarponMonoxideTarponMonoxide
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    Tell him that this is what you want!!! That should clear up the entire problem.
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    TarponMonoxide said:

    Tell him that this is what you want!!! That should clear up the entire problem.

    You would think so, right? It will work for like one try. Lol

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  • Kimbus22Kimbus22
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    If we get 5 minutes alone without a child yelling, we're having sex or asleep.

    I'm not helpful lol
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    cloudymeatballs12 said:
    Tell him that this is what you want!!! That should clear up the entire problem.
    You would think so, right? It will work for like one try. Lol
    What's wrong with that? Why not just ask for it when you want it like any other sex act? "Hey, can we do doggy style tonight?" Done! It's not like you're saying "I want to do doggy style all the time now!"

    Unless you really do want to say, "I don't want to have sex anymore. Can't we just make out all the time instead?" In that case, there are obviously some other issues you'd need to be working through.
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