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Season Finale of The Bachelor!

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Re: Season Finale of The Bachelor!

  • RockABye said:

    He almost comes off as abusive. Not necessarily in a physical manner, but.. I don't know. Obviously I don't know if he is in any way, and he could be an amazing guy in private, but he has a lot of manipulative, creepy qualities that scream WARNING WARNING. Plus, keeping everything so private? Also a little suspect. I don't know.. I could be totally off base. There's just something not right.

    I also found it weird how she was making excuses for him and defending the fact that he wouldn't say he loved her and that it supposedly didn't really bother her. Um, if I had told a guy I loved him, had said (on camera) how I couldn't wait to hear him say how he really felt, and it was months later and he STILL hadn't said it, I'd at least be able to admit "um, yeah, it's annoying, and I wish I knew how he felt". The whole interchange was just so weird.

    I totally got the abusive vibe too. Something is not right with him, and I find him verbally abusive.
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  • Ya, I thought it was strange how he wouldn't say he loved her. But then again, I gotta admit, I don't see him as a bad guy because of it. So he admits he doesn't love her, she knows that. It is HER thing for staying. She could very much leave when she would like. Yet she does not. And at the end, the final rose ceremony, good for him for not claiming to act like he loves her. I see nothing wrong with that. I honestly think that could be a smart move. I mean, he wasn't in love, but maybe she is a person he sees could fit into his life, he just isn't sure yet. No problems with that. Where as how he is, I think he is a different guy. Very open with how he feels with no filter basically. His family even warned the girls of how he is. Lol, different dude, that's for sure. I was never a reall fan of the guy, but I also don't think he was such the sleaze people are making him out to be. Just a really really honest bachelor!

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  • Cloudy - oh I agree.. it's so unrealistic to fall in love on that show. And I give the guy credit for not just proposing bc he's "supposed to" and even for not saying the L word. I think the L word is thrown around much too easily there. I have no problem how it ended and I like it when they buck tradition and don't follow the "rules", I just think he went about it really weirdly and her reactions to it were strange. Again, maybe something was lost in translation, but he was just odd. I'm sure some of it is just cultural differences, which is totally ok, but.. yeah. :) Still the most awkward finale I've ever seen!

     

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  • Rockabye, Oh I know! He was way different, and I really think him being from a different background he was confused as well as the women not understanding each other. That was probably one thing I thought was great about him. How he didn't get the simple things, like when they would have a saying and he had no clue. I swear I cracked up at those parts. Lol This was definitely a different bachelor and a very different ending. Strange and Ya, I do not think those two are going to last very long, but then again, she is pretty opinionated as well. And I am excited about the bachelorette but I am not sure about Andi... :)

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  • Yes! I loved it when he didn't know what they were talking about bc of the language. so funny. Like when Andi insisted he said she was there by default and he said he didn't know/use that word so he wouldnt have said it lol. It did make for some entertaining moments. Sadly, I think that may be why he never got to "know" most of the girls though.. they'd start talking and I feel like maybe he got overwhelmed with the language barrier so.. well.. BESITOS! :)

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  • Ha ha, ya Its okay.... Besitos. LMAO!!! Its like, shut up already...

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