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Growing up making $100,000 a year was considered "a lot of money" to me. I personally think now that is middle class. What do you consider middle class, upper class, etc? I'm just curious. I know it depends on cost of living areas, etc. but generally speaking. I think upper /middle class is probably a family income over $250,000. I think if you are making that or more as a family you are doing pretty good but not "rich". I would consider making over $500,000 "rich". Just curious as to others perspectives for no good reason other than that I am bored. Lol
Re: Middle class
For me, it's all relative. When I was younger we lived in Miami and my parents were recent immigrants and didn't make much money or speak much English (we were lucky if we had money to take the bus to the grocery store some days). By the time I was in high school we had moved to Colorado and my dad was/is making about $150K which compared to when I was little felt like we were swimming in cash. However we lived in a part of town where that amount of money was on the lower end of the pay scale so in a way it still felt like we were lower class because most of my classmates lived in huge houses and made at least double what my dad did.
I guess that didn't really answer your question though and was just a bunch of rambling, haha. If I had to break it down I'd have to say middle class starts at around $100,000, upper middle class starts around $250,000 and then anything over $400,000 would be upper class.
It's a weird thing for me to think about because I used to work for a legal aid office and in order for people to qualify for our services they had to be within a certain percentage of what the government considers the poverty line and most people that I worked with fell way below that threshold. For me it sort of puts things into perspective.
Wow--I seriously am incapable of writing a short response to anything. Geez! Sorry for the novel, haha.
I know it was tough on my parents when I was growing up, but I guess I always considered our family as being "working poor" (until I was a teen) which for some reason in my mind has always been a different category than "lower class"...or I guess it's a sub-category of lower class really. I never thought about why I've always felt those were separate though. This is really causing me to think about how I feel about this...
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I think two things are at play here. What "looks" like middle class is only really affordable to the upper middle class these days, but many charge to keep up with the Joneses. Also, many former middle class professions are being automated, so good middle class jobs are hard to come by. I consider us a new version of middle class that may just not look as good as our parents' version.
Here's my cutoffs for a family of two in suburban MA: $40,000-$60,000 lower middle, $60,000-$130,000 middle, $130,000-$200,000 upper middle. It's a big range, but I just don't think lower class unless there's serious trouble making ends meet, and I don't think upper class until money is barely any object.
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This is how I feel about it. We live in a LCOL area where the average HH income to raise a 4 person family is $35k. One of us alone makes over that. So in our area we're considered middle-high class or even "rich" to some. But nationally we are in the top fifth.
It really all depends on how that person spends the money. I've lived in Chicago area where people spend twice what they make just to keep up with the Jones'. So I've watched someone who makes $500k/year spend frivulously and have the means of a $50k earner.
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This is crazy to me. We make more than $250k in a medium col area and have little debt and I don't feel rich at all. I feel like middle/upper middle class.
Also remember -- you can outspend any income.
True i suppose, but we don't outspend our income by any stretch of the imagination. We certainly aren't living paycheck to paycheck and are able to have a nice house and 2 nice cars that are paid off along with other nice things. But, I think of rich as not having to think twice before making a semi large purchase ($5000?). I have to really sit and think about buying something for even a few hundred. Maybe I'm just cheap Lol!