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BJ questions/advise

Hi, I know I am a newbie but I was wondering if maybe I could get some advise, I don't really know anyone in real life I feel comfortable talking to about this. Okay so short back story, I was married for 4 years, with him for almost 12 years. We separated about 4 months ago, but it had been over for at least 2 years. Being with him for so long (since high school) I feel rather inexperienced. I have recently met some one, and while he has not said any thing to the contrary, I don't feel like I am any good at giving head. Like it takes a really long time, and he usually has to help me out to finish, and he warned me before hand that he is just not very vocal, and to not take offense. So while I may get a little feed back after the fact, I don't get much during the deed.  He is also not circumcised, which I have just never had any experience with. So I guess Im looking for pointers ? Advise? Articles? Anything?

Re: BJ questions/advise

  • I don't know that there is much of a difference in giving head for a circumcised vs uncircumcised. I have been with both. Have you tried a flavored gel like Great Head to help deaden your throat?

    I would just tell him you need some, any, feedback. Ask him the next morning while you guys are doing something else like shopping or breakfast. Ask him to just tell you one pointer and see if the conversation expands from there.

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  • This may sound really strange, but I took tips out of Cosmo magazine, tried them out, and never heard a complaint from DH. He was always really quiet, too, until I finally got annoyed one day and explained that I love/get off on hearing him as much as he loves/gets off on hearing me. Ever since, he's given me a little more feedback than just heavy breathing. 

    The only real tips I can offer up are these - the majority of the nerve endings are in the tip of the penis - utilize them. Hands and mouth can work together in rhythm. Do not forget the twins need some action, too - his, not yours. God gave ya two hands, so feel free to use them both to fondle everything down there, and I'm sure he'll appreciate it all the more. Oh, and there's a 'button' between his balls and anus - gently knead that with a knuckle, and he'll go crazy. 
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