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Do you belong to a union at your job? I know they're bigger in some industries than others.
I'm having trouble understanding how the one works at my job. The lady that did the "sales pitch" only wanted to talk about the discounts you're eligible for if you join. But if I was interested in saving money, I certainly wouldn't give them nearly $500 out of my paycheck each year. The other thing that irked me was that the paperwork she brought for enrollment was used. She gave me an application with someone else's personal information on it (including SS#). So I'm a bit hesitant to give them my information if their rep can't keep it secure.
I wish they would just be straightforward about what they do with the money and what they do outside of giving access to auto discounts

dx: Unexplained IF (mild MFI)
TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3
TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist
Protocol:
24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2
early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop
Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1
partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
C.J. born 01/09/15
Re: Unions
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
dx: Unexplained IF (mild MFI)
TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist Protocol:24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
C.J. born 01/09/15
DH is in a union and there is no benefit to our family. He pays quite a bit in dues and the union uses the money to support political issues and candidates that my DH doesn't want to fund. It is really too bad.
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
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TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad spermDE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017