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Maybe putting TTC on hold...

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Re: Maybe putting TTC on hold...

  • cloudymeatballscloudymeatballs member
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    FutureMrsWright2012 said:
    cloudymeatballs said:
    Thank you so much ladies. I swear, I love you guys! I have looked into communication books, I got one from a friend that I read. I really work on communicating the way it advises. I have been really working on that because I know me, and I am pretty stubborn and like to be right. So, I have really worked on that. He, sucks to say, is the one now who needs the help with it. He is very stressed with work, and I get the shit end of it, which I understand, it happens. We just both have our heads in different places it seems, of what is important. I know we will be fine, but it is hard when other people are always around. We are always busy with things, I have a big family. SO when we have free weekends, I try to get a day of just him and I to reconnect. He seems to want to get with his friends. I can miss my H. We have been too busy and I think I just need some us time. I have felt so on and off the past few months, I guess I just want to feel important? It that makes sense... I have thought about counseling and I think it would help both of us. He thinks he is never wrong. Lol, well I beg to differ, but it would be nice to actually have him hear from someone hearing both of our sides that we both can be wrong.. Ya know. Pick and choose your battles. We are going to have many.. ;) xoxo thanks ladies for all of your kind words. !
    Are you guys in a place that you could plan a weekend away together, just the two of you? Sounds like there's lots of distractors right now, and maybe that could help you reconnect and get back on the same page?

    Well, we are headed to Texas for about 5 days in June. He has a Memorial thing he is going to with his Friends. This month we will just try to get thru it. It is hard for us time, we usually find time to make it, but its just that time of the year with lots going on....

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  • MH1006MH1006 member
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    If you haven't already read it, I found The 5 Love Languages to be a super quick and helpful read.
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